The More You Live, The More ‘Lonely’ You Become
The man said, ‘Loneliness is like a fence. Only with a fence can there be one’s own garden.’
As people reach a certain age, they gradually isolate themselves from society, become less sociable, and subconsciously build a wall around themselves, keeping outsiders out and unwilling to step out.
As a middle-aged person, the more you live, the more ‘lonely’ you become. This loneliness is not caused by others, but created by oneself. Loneliness is not loneliness, but a higher level of enjoyment.
The loneliness of middle-aged people is because no one understands them.
People often ask me, ‘Do you really think there are true friends in this world?’ True friends are soulmates in life, or another self. Many people desperately seek them. As the ancients said, ‘Wine meets a friend, a thousand cups less.’ If there are true friends, let’s drink together without getting bored, no matter how many cups we drink, we won’t get drunk, and even if we get drunk, we’ll be happy.
Now, people yearn for true friends because of the inner pain that no one understands. Only by expecting to meet a true friend can they confide in each other, speak freely, and have a heart-to-heart connection. It’s really tired, just pick up the phone to chat on WeChat, and immediately feel better. The relationship between true friends is a faint resonance of hearts, a mysterious and indescribable feeling.
The wish is beautiful, but often like a mirage, as beautiful as it is, it cannot be obtained. As a middle-aged person, there are no true friends to accompany you, and your heart becomes more and more tired, and you don’t want to talk to anyone. Whatever you say is superfluous.
A middle-aged man who doesn’t want to speak is lonely. He rather be lonely than to speak out. No one consoles him, so he self-comforts, and all the experiences are borne alone, without relying on anyone to empathize.
As writer said: ‘Even when interacting with the best people, it will make a person feel tired, while in solitude, I returned to myself.’ Since it is uncomfortable to be with anyone, it’s better to be alone. From now on, be an introvert, and it doesn’t matter.
As a middle-aged person, you are used to ‘loneliness’, and whether you live well or not doesn’t need others to evaluate, but self-evaluation. Everyone has shortcomings and advantages. Some say you are outstanding, some say you are terrible, and some maliciously slander and curse you. If you care about what others say, aren’t you adding to your own troubles?
Life has many things, it's better to let it go, give your heart a vacation. When you break down the invisible ‘fence’, life gets a new beginning. Loneliness is also freedom.
Author: Bu Yi Chou Shi (Rough Food)Follow my text, enter your heart.
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