Sharp Kindness Is True Kindness

Kindness is precious, but if it lacks edges, it's merely weakness.

We all know that kindness is a virtue, we should be amiable and tolerant in dealing with people. However, in today's society, the more kind you are, the more likely you are to be taken advantage of.

When a person is starving and freezing, giving him a bowl of rice solves his biggest problem, and he will be eternally grateful. But if you constantly give him handouts, he'll become entitled and complacent.

Human nature has a greedy side. Once it's prolonged, a bowl of rice isn't enough, two bowls aren't enough, three or four bowls still can't fill his mouth, even if you exert all your efforts, it's like pouring water into a bucket.

You need to know that in this world, if you're too good, people will take advantage of you. When you're too kind, they'll be reckless; when you're too generous, they'll see your weakness.

A soft heart is easily squeezed; a good heart is easily seen as lacking a heart. The initial kindness will eventually turn into malicious consequences,

When his requests are not met, he'll turn around and bite you. You're also the most likely to be injured as the innocent victim.

Kindness without edges not only cannot transmit your goodwill to the world, but also transmits your timidity; kindness without principles will make true friends feel frustrated, and people who don't deserve respect will never understand the meaning of 'do not trespass.'

'You're so good, you must help me.'

'You're so good, you won't refuse me, right?'

Often, we hear such words. Some people refuse out of face, unwilling to say no,

But think carefully, must I help you just because I'm good? Moreover, my goodness is not a reason for you to ask for help,

Be a kind person with edges and character, understand how to use wisdom to fight evil and good, be a good person for good people, and show your strength and passion to bad people,

People need to have a kind heart, but not blindly kind without boundaries. If you have no boundaries, they won't have principles. When kindness loses its principles, it encourages evil,