A man only falls into disgrace once; it is in that moment he truly knows who is genuine and who cares the most.
What truly empowers you isn't persistence, but letting go; it's not receiving, but relinquishing what you hold dear; it's not standing on someone else's shoulders, but cultivating knowledge within yourself; it's not a humble existence, but an unyielding struggle; it's not waiting for the end of hardship, but bravely saying goodbye; it's not chasing a distant goal, but holding onto an unshakable belief.
If you are right, don't argue excessively; pushing others to their breaking point also cuts off your own retreat. If you are excellent, don't flaunt your abilities; people will distance themselves from your ostentation. If you are suffering, don't confide in everyone; everyone has their own burdens; don't turn potential friendships into strangers. If you are lonely, immerse yourself in solitude and allow yourself to settle; loneliness is inherent in the soil of life.
It is only when you are humbled that you truly understand who cares for you most sincerely. What we leave behind in the last moments of time isn't wealth or beauty, but genuine, shared youth – each with its own brilliance. Life isn't perfect, and I'm still happy. Though we may lose things we once possessed, friendships may fade, and romantic pursuits remain distant, I understand, I understand everything around me; I will cherish it.
People with a sense of mission, despair, and a feeling of crisis are extraordinary individuals. If you constantly forgive yourself, you'll often lose yourself; if you treat yourself well in every situation, you'll frequently lose yourself. People should be free, independent, and self-reliant. However, don't let freedom lead to arrogance. More and more people are joining movements, and they are exhausted by their thoughts and actions. The more hypocritical a person is, the more burdened they are, because they live a complex life.
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