Life has no 'ifs', only consequences and results
Don't force yourself to wear unsuitable shoes, it's only hurting your feet. If the person doesn't pick up the phone, don't repeatedly try to contact them; cherish your loved ones will call immediately. If a restaurant is moved, don't go there to eat a long distance, your time shouldn't be wasted chasing after things. Be content with whatever and whoever you have, don't force yourself on others, and those who have left are just scenery; those who remain are the essence of life.
Indecisiveness is the biggest source of negative energy in life. There's nothing much to be indecisive about in life. From a life perspective, any choice you make on your life path is wrong, no matter how you choose, there will be mistakes. Therefore, when a choice comes, A or B, just walk away. There's no right or wrong in life, only the persistence after a choice, without regret, keep going, that's right. My favorite poem is: 'Keep walking, and the flowers will bloom.'
Life has no 'ifs', only consequences and results. Heaven gave us two ears and a mouth, so we should listen to others' good advice before doing anything. Also, we should be people who handle things with a broad perspective, just like the ancients said, 'outer circles, inner squares,' we must master the appropriate scale when handling matters. But our inner hearts must be honest and sincere, and we must maintain integrity in our dealings; we must stick to things that should be pursued, and we must abandon things that should be relinquished.
