Life is like a suit of buttons, the saddest thing is not that you find the last button is missing, but that you stubbornly insist on using the wrong one.

This stubbornness is often fatal, it can derail your life and deviate from the right path.

Later, I realized that things that cannot happen are already endings, and all the effort and struggle are just prolonging that specific outcome for a few days.

Knowing that you've made a mistake, don't keep making the same mistake. Learn to take responsibility for your own life.

I've discovered that most people who have extramarital affairs are driven by (chance/luck), they naïvely believe they will be lucky, and eventually achieve a happy and fulfilled ending.

However, even the best endings are not necessarily happy ones. If you don't stop in time, the bitter fruit will be borne in silence.

You can't hide the emotions, once revealed, they cannot be recovered. The four endings are inevitable!

First, they reconcile.

It's a common situation: you love him, but how can you know if he truly loves you?,After all, hearts separate by a distance, no one is a perfect understanding of each other. You only know your feelings for him, but you can't control and decide his feelings for you.

Once this happens, there will inevitably be mutual entanglement.

For example, when an extramarital affair is discovered, the woman wants to divorce, but the man just wants to return to his family. He doesn't truly love her, even if he does, he's only concerned about his family.

So, she naturally feels angry and aggrieved, and in this state, she can do anything!,But frankly, this entanglement is pointless and unsustainable, it will only make the two of them lose even a trace of goodwill, and end up with mutual hostility.

There's also a situation where the woman isn't willing to stay with the man after divorce, but the man sees him returning to his family as unfair and self-destructive.

No matter what, in the end, ashes to ashes, dust to dust, they are just passersby in each other's lives.

Second, they remarry.

Regardless of whether the woman wants to divorce or the man wants to return to his family, they ultimately don't stay together.

Instead, they form new families with new lovers.

It's normal that extramarital affairs happen not because of true love, but to seek some stimulation and psychological comfort in a monotonous marriage.

When the hormones fade and freshness disappears, both parties lose interest and impulse, and they no longer want to be with each other.

Even if they were originally in a mutually beneficial and exploitative relationship, it's shattered. And once exposed, they will be disgraced and ostracized, and it will take a lifetime to clear their names.

Or they become social outcasts, and everyone around them starts to avoid them.

Third, they remain entangled.

This is a common situation: you love him, but how can you know if he truly loves you?,After all, hearts separate by a distance, no one is a perfect understanding of each other. You only know your feelings for him, but you can't control and decide his feelings for you.

Once this happens, there will inevitably be mutual entanglement.

For example, when an extramarital affair is discovered, the woman wants to divorce, but the man just wants to return to his family. He doesn't truly love her, even if he does, he's only concerned about his family.

So, she naturally feels angry and aggrieved, and in this state, she can do anything!,But frankly, this entanglement is pointless and unsustainable, it will only make the two of them lose even a trace of goodwill, and end up with mutual hostility.

There's also a situation where the woman isn't willing to stay with the man after divorce, but the man sees him returning to his family as unfair and self-destructive.

No matter what, in the end, ashes to ashes, dust to dust, they are just passersby in each other's lives.

Fourth, they stay together.

This is the expected ending that many people have hoped for.

However, it's not a happy ending, but the beginning of a nightmare. Why? Because you can never fully trust each other.

It's a simple truth.

Even if he betrayed his original marriage for you, if you are together, you will still worry about him, doubt him.

He might betray you in the same way.

So, you can't achieve absolute trust between each other, and you end up living a monotonous life.

In addition, because both of you have betrayed your original marriage, your loyalty to marriage is even lower. You are more likely to betray each other again, or you'll end up with a miserable life.

Or you might repeatedly quarrel and fight due to lack of trust, and finally you can't even make compromises anymore.

Generally speaking, any emotional relationship that has been exposed like this will eventually lead to one of these four endings.

It's a reminder for those who are driven by (chance/luck)!

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