Don't hurt people with your words, and the family will be more harmonious.

Some say that language is the sharpest weapon and the fastest surgical tool.

The harm of language is always invisible. You might not think it exists, but it's everywhere.

In love, it's the same. Even if you love someone deeply, if you often say hurtful words, even the sweetest feelings will crack.

We all know that Li An is a famous director who became a late bloomer, and before his success, he spent his time at home writing scripts after his marriage. He often took his works to Hollywood for luck, but he was repeatedly rejected.

During these six years, the family's daily expenses were maintained by the wife's salary.

Because of repeated failures, Li An once lost confidence and was about to give up his dream of becoming a director, planning to earn a living by computer.

But his wife said to him, ‘You must remember your dream. There are so many people learning computers, you won't be the only one, Li An.’

His wife’s words enlightened Li An, and with his wife’s full support and urging, Li An finally turned things around and achieved success.

Imagine if Li An hadn’t received his wife’s support and encouragement, and instead had been constantly humiliated by his wife: ‘You idle man!’, would there still be Li An today?

Once, Ruyu asked Li An during an interview, ‘What is your greatest happiness now?’

Li An replied, ‘When my wife smiles at me, I feel relaxed and happy.’

This is a man's pride and joy in marrying a good wife.

Sharing a life with a partner, constant criticism will break the relationship between husband and wife; praise often, like planting seeds, can bloom beautiful roses.

Foolish women only see men’s shortcomings, and their hearts are full of resentment, causing men to avoid them.

But intelligent women have a deep understanding of things, which is the greatest motivation for them to move forward, letting men achieve success.

A woman who can speak well is a man's lucky person, and the soul of a family.

Speak well, good fortune comes.

As the saying goes, ‘Good words bring good luck, and bad words bring misfortune.’ The mouth is the source of good and bad luck.

The power of a woman’s mouth determines her family’s feng shui.

I once heard that ‘What you say determines who you are.’

A woman’s destiny is actually hidden in her mouth.

A woman who can speak well will always have good luck.

Because she never speaks hurtful words, doesn’t speak useless words at work, doesn’t speak harsh words to friends, and doesn’t complain.

Accumulating virtue is accumulating good luck.

A woman who can speak well determines the destiny of her family.Because she not only has a kind heart, but can also transform hurtful words into moisturizing rain.

At the same time, she wins praise and good fortune, and also brings a harmonious family.

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A woman who doesn't complain is closest to happiness.

Your world is what you create. If you smile at it, it will smile at you.

If you are happy, you will live in laughter.

Similarly, if you complain, criticize, accuse, and resent, you will live in hell.

Buddha also told us: a thought to heaven, a thought to hell.

Mr. Qian Zhongshu often sighed, ‘My clumsy hands and feet.’ He couldn’t tie a bow tie, holding chopsticks was a mess, and even couldn’t distinguish his left and right hands.

During his wife Yang Jiang’s hospitalization, he went to visit her and said to her with a sad face, ‘I’ve done something wrong again. I accidentally spilled ink and stained the landlord’s table.’

Yang Jiang didn’t get angry but comforted him, saying, ‘It doesn’t matter, I’ll wash it.’

‘But ink can be washed off.’

However, when Qian Zhongshu returned home from the hospital, he accidentally knocked over a lamp and broke it, and the door was also damaged.

Yang Jiang didn’t get angry either, just said, ‘It doesn’t matter, I’ll repair it.’

If most women in life, they would only be angry and complain about their husband’s inability to do anything, clumsy hands and feet, but Yang Jiang had a positive attitude, taking the initiative to take on ‘the clumsy husband can’t do it, I’ll do it’ banner, instead of complaining about her husband’s incompetence, she was not angry and resentful.

In Yang Jiang’s tolerance and generosity, a happy family was created, without anger, without resentment, full of happiness.

A good family must eliminate complaining. Once complaining about husband and wife, the relationship between husband and wife will have cracks, and it’s difficult to repair.

‘Happy people don’t complain, and people who complain are not happy.’

Yang Jiang, through her life, gave us the best example.

Know that

Life is like a mirror, if you smile at it, it will smile at you; if you cry at it, it will also cry for you.

A woman who can speak well will never say complaining words, because she knows that complaining is the most meaningless thing in the world. Besides wasting her own energy and bringing negative energy to her family, it won’t have any effect.

An intelligent woman will transform negative energy into upward momentum, she has light in her heart, love in her eyes, but she will never complain.

A complaining woman will waste her own energy and turn it into negative energy, which won’t benefit anyone and won’t benefit herself, and it won’t have any effect on things.

04A woman’s mouth determines a family’s feng shui.

I once heard that ‘What you say determines who you are.’

A woman’s destiny is actually hidden in her mouth.

A woman who can speak well will always have good luck.

Because she never speaks hurtful words, doesn’t speak useless words at work, doesn’t speak harsh words to friends, and doesn’t complain.

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