Two Letters | Missing You, Mom and Dad Always Worry About You!
Dad always worried about you
Dear Daughter:
Time flies, in a blink of an eye, you have now turned 22 years old, and this year you are about to graduate from university. There are many things I want to say, but I'm just an ordinary person, and I can't say those words that great people say to their children. All I can give you is some rambling and silent blessings!
22 years, a generation has grown up, and a generation has aged. 22 years ago, on a rainy summer night, when I had you, I felt for the first time in my life that I had everything in the world. From then on, my life was no longer two hands empty, because of you, thus living a fulfilling, laborious, but sweeter life. 22 years, we have lived together, experiencing the joys and sorrows of life, I am happy with your progress, saddened by your pain, worried about your rebellious behavior. Now, on this spring day when flowers bloom, you have grown another year. Here, Mom wants to say a few words to you:
Throughout life, you will encounter many things: wisdom, money, hardship, and good fortune. Don't be panicked or flustered, just go with the flow and accept it calmly.
Life is also orderly, and everything comes with time. For example: when to learn, when to fall in love, when to work, cherish and grasp every stage, treat it seriously, and work hard, you will be brilliant. Don't reverse the order, otherwise you will make one mistake after another, and you won't have a chance to redo it, only accumulating regrets and regrets in your life, and you won't have another chance to try again.
Now, wings have been given to you for youth, and people with dreams should fly towards the distance. Life is limited, try to experience and experience as much as possible. This is the true wealth of life.
When you are far away, no matter what setbacks and difficulties you encounter, remember to tell us, don't be afraid to worry your parents or don't want your parents to worry, and bear it alone. Our happiness and worries are closely linked to you, and we are destined to worry about you until the end. This is the responsibility and happiness of being a parent. So, no matter how, parents will always be your shield and your eternal supporter.
Daughter, I just want you to become a woman who loves life, understands life, and is happy. Now, our mother-daughter relationship is a matter of fate, I thank you—my child, I thank you for the joy and emotion you bring me! Life is precious, Mom wants you to treat life seriously, cherish life, be kind to yourself, cherish what you have.
In this world, no matter how, you must love, believe, be soft, and be kind. The wind continues to blow, the rain continues to fall, we continue to smile towards the sun!
Mother
(The author is Wei Na from the Northern Power Company District)
I will do as you expect
Dear Mom:
Best regards!
After reading your letter, I am equally moved, and it takes a long time to ponder before I pick up my pen, but I don't know where to start, I hope you will be patient and listen to your daughter's rambling.
22 years, this is a part of your life, but it's the entire life I have now. Yes, in these 22 years, I have never left your strict teachings, and gentle persuasion, recalling it still brings warmth. Now, the first major turning point in my life is about to come. I am nervous and excited, but I also feel scared. However, Mom, don't worry, you believe in your daughter! In these 22 years, you have told me the principles of life, which are far more than you wrote in your book at home, these principles, my daughter has engraved in my heart. Living alone outside, I will be strong. I will be a kind and friendly girl, to feel the world with softness, to block the darkness with sunshine.
I will keep my dreams, keep learning, for my beautiful future, and for your peace of mind and pride. I will do as you expect, an optimistic and cheerful woman, love life. I may also be wronged, I may be frustrated, the first thing I think of is my mom. I will tell her all my sadness, hoping to get her comfort and persuasion, in her arms, I will always be that little girl who stumbled and cried for her mother.
Ten months of pregnancy, three generations repaying each other lightly. Mom, the gratitude for upbringing, no one can repay, daughter only vows not to disappoint you, no matter how far away you are in a foreign land, my most ordinary and greatest mom, is my reliance and motivation for my struggle.
Love your daughter
(The author is Xiao Yu, a student of Northwestern University)
The story behind the letters
Tell children to persevere
The mother writing this letter is Wei Na, and she and her daughter, Xiao Yu, are like a pair of sisters. They can go shopping together, wear the same hair clips, and wear the same beautiful dresses. But as a mother, Wei Na will guide her daughter's life, using communication to tell her that in life, the most valuable thing is to persevere.
In these two letters, you can feel that Mom and Dad have a common view of life, this mutual understanding comes from Wei Na and her daughter's friendship, and their mutual education. Wei Na loves reading and writing, and enjoys the way that makes her heart calm. Similarly, her daughter also likes it. Wei Na also told reporters that after a while, her daughter started learning the erhu, not to make her daughter become a performer in the future, but to let her have a friend to soothe her heart and make her cultivate her sentiments.
Now, Xiao Yu is about to graduate from university and has already signed a satisfactory job upon entering her fourth year. Xiao Yu is also full of gratitude to her mother in this letter, and she believes that as she takes off on her life's journey, she will definitely hear a beautiful and cheerful erhu sound...
Baishui Daily All-Media Reporter Ma Xue
