Navigate Life, Recognize People, But Don't Exhaustively Examine Them, For Excessive Examination Leads to More Complaints.
I don't expect life to go smoothly,
but I hope when facing life's challenges,
I can be its opponent.
In a lifetime, we have many turning points. Life is destined to bring many grievances.
Don't let minor grievances upset your mood and interfere with your life.
Learn to forgive, learn to be confident, don't punish yourself with others' mistakes.
Resentment is born of your own heart. Try to love, don't live in the sea of resentment.
Giving brings more blessings; gratitude brings more smoothness; helping others brings more noble people; complaining brings more troubles; contentment brings more happiness; avoidance leads to failure; anger leads to illness; greed leads to poverty…
In the world, know people; but don't examine people to the fullest, for excessive examination leads to more complaints.
Know people, but don't talk to everyone; excessive talking leads to fewer friends.
Criticize others, but don't exhaust your criticism, for excessive criticism drives people away.
Respect people, but don't be too subservient; excessive subservience leads to weakness.
Let people, but don't withdraw completely; excessive withdrawal leads to isolation.
Have vision, you can see far; have tolerance, you can tolerate; have sharpness, you can restrain it; have cultivation, you can be self-controlled – only then can you have ample room to maneuver.
Time can heal any wound. Give yourself more time.
Plainness is the first way to calm the heart, tranquility is the first way to deal with things, tolerance is the first way to treat people, apology is the first way to protect yourself.
The greedy are rich in wealth but fearful in their hearts; the content are poor in wealth but at peace; those who are high are busy and exhausted; those who are low are busy and relaxed.
The difficulties of life are not dependent on wealth or status. Happiness depends on how you live. Either take control of your life, or let life control you.
Do a little kindness, just the right amount of indifference, and appropriate care – your life will be much easier.
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