Let your mood be with those who understand you, and your emotions with those who love you.

Written by: FourLeafGrass · Host: Qiaoqiu

Source: Kawaii Micro-Card (ID: kawa01)

Living in this world, we always need to deal with all kinds of people. We've all been hurt and wronged in interpersonal relationships, and we've all experienced losses.

Perhaps it's because the wrong person shared your thoughts, the wrong person trusted you, and you were betrayed without mercy; or perhaps you stubbornly entrusted your emotions to someone who didn't love you, only to end up with scars.

Until reality wakes us up, we realize not everyone deserves our sincerity. Regardless of friendship or love, we need to raise a 'threshold'.

Don't readily open your heart to everyone, and don't fall in love with someone who doesn't have you.

Share your mood with those who understand you, and leave your emotions with those who truly love you. Only then won't you be disappointed, and you can achieve happiness.

Mood, leave it with those who understand you

Have you ever had such an experience? When you encounter happy things in life, you instinctively share them with those around you, only to find that few truly rejoice because of your happiness.

Occasionally, you post gloomy posts on your, and people just brush them aside, treating them as if they hadn't seen them. Over time, you gradually realize that there aren't many people in this world who truly care about you.

You begin to become silent, no longer expressing your emotions. Whether in daily life or on various social media, you've lost the desire to share.

Once, you read a saying: 'Happiness shared with the wrong person becomes boastful; sadness shared with the wrong person becomes a lament. It's true. Everyone is a lonely being, and there's a desire to share joy or sorrow.'

However, your mood should be shared with those who understand you.

Those who understand you can understand all the hardships in your life and empathize with your difficulties.They will patiently listen to your sharing, rejoice with you, and mourn with you.

In the presence of those who understand you, you don't need to consider everything meticulously, nor do you need to brainstorm what to say or what to hide.

Because they won't ridicule you, betray you, but will instead consider everything for you and care about your feelings. Those who understand you always sincerely hope for your good fortune.

They will encourage you when you're proud, preventing you from being arrogant and complacent; and they'll encourage you when you're discouraged, helping you regain your confidence.

In your past experiences, wasn't there someone you loved but couldn't have? You once thought that as long as you give enough love and sincerity, one day he would be touched and moved.

Unknowingly, in love, being moved doesn't necessarily mean being moved. When you patiently wait for an unattainable person, ignoring true love, which is a chess battle between equals,

You've heard a saying: 'You know, any emotion that requires you to expend effort to please won't last long. Because emotions are complementary, and it's tiring for one person to take the initiative for too long.'

True love cannot be forced.

Falling in love with someone who doesn't love you is like holding a cactus—the tighter you hold it, the more painful it is.

Instead of pouring all your emotions into someone who doesn't love you, why not love yourself first? Believe that in the future, someone will regard you as a treasure, cherish you.

You'll eventually find that only when you love the right person can you accompany happiness for the rest of your life. Only when you're with the right person can you enjoy the joy and delight in your heart.Sincerely, give it to the right person, so you won't be disappointed

You've heard a saying: 'Life is so short, why waste it on someone who doesn't care about you? Hearts are precious, don't waste them on those who don't cherish them.'

That's right. In this complex world, we will encounter those who don't understand us and hurt us, as well as those who truly care about us and quietly give us things.

Once we are repeatedly rejected and ignored, we will be disappointed, sad, and discouraged. Without a wronged and willing love, we can't sustain it for a long time.

Sometimes, we're stuck in a relationship because we're waiting for a reason to completely lose hope, accumulating disappointment after disappointment until it becomes despair.

Zhang Xijun once said:

No matter how good you are, there will be those who don't cherish you. Fortunately, in the end, all those who don't cherish you will become the past.

In the long life, give your sincerity to those who understand you, and leave your true feelings with those who love you.

Only in the presence of those who truly understand you can you experience the joy of mutual understanding and tacit consent. Only when you genuinely care about you can you feel the happiness of being pampered and cherished.

Throughout life, I wish you a simple and happy life with one true person, two or three close friends.

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