Will There Be True Love Between Two People with Families? Seeing Through This Point Will Prevent You From Making Mistakes Again
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When I discuss emotional issues with readers, I often ask them this question: So what if?
Emotional problems are always complex and ever-changing, but they eventually converge into one question: Does he really love me? Or, did he ever love me? Most often, this question is asked by women.
In women's cognition, as long as someone truly loves, even if they endure many hurts, it's worth it.
However, so what if? Whether it's loved or not, when everything becomes the past, when facts are presented, many times it's really impossible to deceive yourself, to find words to comfort yourself, to refuse to admit that you've loved the wrong person, to deliberately beautify those hurts.
Especially for some women, they love someone who has a family, or they already have a family and children, and they involuntarily fell in love. At this time, discussing whether it's true love or whether the other person truly loved them, it seems pointless because this kind of love shouldn't happen in the first place.
Some things shouldn't happen, and you stubbornly do them. When you're hurt, you still refuse to admit that you've loved the wrong person and beautify those hurts, you're just ignoring the root of the problem.
So, when two people have a family, if you can see this point, you won't make mistakes again.
That is, you must understand that whether it's love or not, this kind of feeling shouldn't happen in the first place. Now that you feel pain or torment, don't say that it's just because you're self-inflicted. Or, this is the price you pay for your own mistakes.
As for whether the price is big or small, whether it's within your tolerance, and whether you've lost control, these may vary from person to person. Just don't wait until the price is too high before regretting, because it may be too late by then.
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Author: Xue Luo Wu Chen, Writer, Emotional Consultant. If you have any emotional troubles, you can send me a private message ~
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