Woman, be ruthless; it won't be wrong.

When people ask you to do something, do it; eventually you'll become a laborer.

When they need you, you appear; when they don't need you, they disappear.

You'll gradually lose yourself.

Sometimes, when people ask you for help, you'll exhaust yourself completely, or at most, you'll just get a 'good guy' card. If you don't do things well, you'll not only waste your effort and not get anything in return, but you'll also get into trouble.

In both life and work, you must learn to say no. Those who don't know how to say no, even if they exhaust themselves to death, will not receive the genuine respect of others. They've gotten used to your subservience, and it's been taken for granted.

You need to know that people who trouble you don't necessarily care about you. Don't be a pushover; respect is earned, not given.

In this complex and realistic society, 'good people' don't smell good. Having a temper is a sign of genuine character. Swallow your words when appropriate, even if you're mature. But speaking up when necessary is taking responsibility.

People like to take advantage of the weak. When you learn to say no and to retaliate when necessary, they will respect you, even fear you.

The more you experience, the more you believe this: 'It's okay to be ruthless.'

From now on, if someone wrongs me, I won't tolerate it. If there's a problem, I won't shy away from it.

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