Foolish Women Rekindle Relationships, Silly Women Return to Family, Smart Women Invest in Themselves
A foolish woman rekindles relationships, a silly woman returns to her family, a smart woman returns to…
Second Chapter of Marriage
This article is reprinted from Book369
Author: Ling Jiuge
Source: Ling Jiuge (ID: lingjiuge520)
People are often grateful for the goodwill of strangers, but they ignore the people who care about them day after day nearby.
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I've seen many women who habitually give to others, neglecting themselves, and finally not being cherished, even failing to receive a simple expression of gratitude.
True feelings are often trampled, deep love is often disappointed.
In the world of emotions, not every effort you make will yield a return, because no one stipulates that those who give more are happier.
Ironically, the more deeply you love, the worse you end up.
A foolish woman rekindles relationships, a silly woman returns to her family, and a smart woman will choose to invest her time and energy in herself, putting herself first.
In fact, a slightly selfish woman often lives happier!
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Women who are too heavy with relationships will eventually not have a good life.
Habitually thinking of everyone as good, even if you are hurt, you will find excuses for others, pay attention to others' feelings, but not prioritize yourself.
You are willing to sacrifice for those you care about, but they don't value you, let alone give you a simple thank you. When you're busy, they suddenly remember you, and when they're free, they ignore you.
Those who are deeply committed to relationships often regret it when they turn back, and it's a matter of time before the old relationship breaks apart.
A smart woman will leave quickly, but you stay there waiting, thinking you can still return to the past, believing in a bygone era.
When a broken relationship is beyond repair, the best way is to leave it in the past, don't constantly reminisce about old love, don't blindly believe in sweet words.
Pouring your heart out may bring you a good outcome, but it may also lead to ruin.
People are easily deceived, horses are easily ridden.
One day, you'll understand that you can't be too soft, people will use it to their advantage.
Your kindness needs a little sharpness, and it shouldn't be given to everyone, otherwise you'll be seen as a white-eyed wolf!
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Women who are too focused on family prioritize family above all else, taking care of them meticulously, only considering themselves later.
I've seen many women like that, dedicating their entire lives to their husband and children, not recognizing their own efforts, and then complaining and rejecting.
People are often grateful for the goodwill of strangers, but they ignore the people who care about them day after day nearby.
How many people think this way: they give the worst attitude to those they love most, and they don't understand it.
You always work hard and quietly handle all the household affairs, never complaining, and you're taken for granted. They don't know how much effort you've put in, they just think it's easy, and they even scold you for not doing it well.
There's no such thing as empathy, you have to believe it yourself. You think your selfless dedication will be understood by others, but in fact, it only makes them more demanding.
If this continues, you will lose sight of yourself.
First, be yourself, then be someone's wife or mother. If no one will cherish you, at least cherish yourself!
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Smart women are a little selfish, and they know how to live for themselves.
In this world, there are so many uncatchable emotions and people who can't be kept, instead of wasting your heart on those who don't appreciate you, invest in yourself.
Pain is given by others, injury is a good thing, happiness can only be obtained by yourself.
No matter what, constantly improve yourself will not be wrong.
When you're financially independent and mentally independent, you can leave anyone and still be happy, you'll find better people coming to find you.
As long as you calm down, don't worry about the future or regret the past, confidently take each step, don't be too good to everyone, have just the right amount of coldness, life will be much easier.
You'll never know if the person who says you're in love with you today will suddenly change their heart tomorrow, but you can be sure that you'll never betray yourself.
Shoes are uncomfortable, only feet know, how good your life is, only your heart knows, don't deceive yourself, don't linger in a place that doesn't deserve you.
When your feet are firm, your heart is settled, then find a pair of shoes that suit you, shoes don't have to be expensive, as long as they can accompany you through the wind and rain, and can withstand the test of time.
Wish you have high heels and running shoes, can be very gentle, can also be very cold;
Wish you don't fear the dangers of the future, and don't regret the decisions you've made;
Wish your every tear is joyful;
Wish you're exhausted but have someone to rely on, wish you go out and return as a young man.
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