The best relationship is ‘I understand you’

There's a saying: Spring wind ten miles, not as good as me understanding you.

Indeed, in the vast world, there are many emotions that make people's hearts move, whether it's the infatuation at first sight when meeting, or the vows of love, but none compares to understanding and knowing in everyday life.

If love is like a flash of lightning and a spark of fire, a promise is like an invisible pavilion in the air, and understanding is like a gentle moisturizing of things, a long-term result of water meeting channels.

I think, on a long journey, meeting someone who says 'I love you' to you is not difficult, it's hard to meet someone with a heart-to-heart connection, who can understand what you think and what you want just by making eye contact.

Understanding is the highest level of loving someone, it's the intersection of hearts.

Veteran actor Chen Dao Ming said when talking about his emotional life:

After so many years, I and Du Chen had disagreements and arguments, but we were still very happy.

Despite 37 years of time, they were still as happy as the first time. This is inseparable from each other's tolerance and understanding.

In 1981, Du Chen became the first host of 'News Broadcast'. At that time, his popularity was already very high. After their daughter was born, Du Chen faced two choices: continue to devote himself to his beloved career, or retire home to raise his family.She and Chen Dao Ming discussed, Chen Dao Ming seriously said to her:

Women need independence, and with your career going so well, staying at home would get sick. As long as you are happy and fulfilled at work, even if I'm filming outside, I will fly over to see you.

Du Chen was relieved to continue doing his work.

At the time when Chen Dao Ming achieved great success in his career, rumors of divorce also spread many times, Du Chen was afraid of the prophecy coming true, so he tentatively asked Chen Dao Ming.

Chen Dao Ming sincerely replied to her, after listening, Du Chen's doubts were also dispelled.Chen Dao Ming always deeply understands Du Chen's thoughts and feelings. He not only saw her brilliant and dazzling side at work, but also saw her inner anxieties and doubts, and sincerely encouraged and comforted her.

Because of love, therefore understand, because understand, therefore understand.

This saying is perfectly applicable to them. It's precisely because of understanding that this relationship can cross time and distance, and remain deep and long-lasting.

In this world, the best relationship is 'I understand you'. If we can be with someone who understands us, it's the greatest happiness.

The person who understands you will always be by your side, giving you the power to move forward. When many people oppose you, they will wholeheartedly support and believe in you, when you feel anxious and uneasy, they will accompany you to talk about your inner thoughts, and share your worries and pressures.

There is no need to pretend or force, there is no test of hesitation, only unspoken understanding.

In life, we may not have complete empathy, but the person who understands you will understand your difficulties, accept your shortcomings, tolerate your whims, and be willing to face the wind and rain with you.