Tell Your Child: This is the Spirit of Nobility
Tell the child this is the spirit of nobility!
1Child, you must learn to cook. This has nothing to do with serving others. When the people you love are not around, you must be able to treat yourself well.
——Independent survival
2Child, you must learn to drive. This has nothing to do with status and position. This way, you can go anywhere you want at any time, without relying on anyone.
——Freedom
3Child, you must go to university, a proper university. This is not about education. Life needs you to experience these years, a life of unrestrained freedom and absorbing knowledge.
——Once you enter society, you enter the market
4Child, do you know how far your footsteps can go, your heart must be wide. A wide heart makes you happy. If you can't go far, let books take you away.
——Broaden your horizons, rely on the vision of knowledge
5If there are only two bowls of water left in the world, one is for drinking, and the other is to wash your face and underwear.
——Self-respect, independent of wealth
6If the sky collapses, don't cry, don't complain. That will only make the people who love you feel sorry for you, and make those who hate you more pleased.
——Calmly accept your fate, and those who love you will care
7Even if you eat soy sauce rice, you must spread a clean tablecloth and sit elegantly. Live a simple life with elegance.
——Style, independent of circumstances
8When you go to a faraway place, besides the camera, remember to bring a paper and pen. The scenery is the same, the mood you have when you appreciate the scenery is never repeated.
——Just as Xu Xiake was Xu Xiake, not because he traveled the most roads
9You must have your own space, even if it's only 5 square meters. It can prevent you from drifting into the streets if you and your lover quarrel and are petty. More importantly, it gives you a place to calm down when you are restless, a corner for your heart to rest.
——Independent personality
10When you are young, you should have vision; when you grow up, you should have experience. That's how you live a refined life!
——Read other people's experiences, find your own experiences
11No matter when, be a kind person. Remember, having kindness will make you the most blessed by heaven.
——This blessing is not necessarily wealth and power. Good deeds bring good rewards, and rewards are love
12. Smiles, elegance, confidence, are the greatest spiritual wealth. Once you have them, you have it all.
This is the 'nobility' spirit!