‘Fat Woman’ After Marriage, Husband Never Made a Joke: Those Who Love You, Don’t Hurt You

The beauty of girls, in the eyes of many people, can be measured by two words: 'thin' and 'fat',The word 'thin' represents beauty and a good figure,while 'fat' seems to make people feel ashamed and be mocked by others.Getting fat seems like a wrong thing, becoming the topic that others talk about, also becomes the reason for others to bully you.

Because they are fat girls, they have to endure being bullied? Their personality is becoming more and more inferiority complex, more and more timid, no longer good at getting along with others, afraid of being hurt,It's just getting fat, why should you be bullied?

Why would someone who is fat be blamed and mocked, the world is not fair,No girl doesn't love beauty, and no girl wants to be an object of bullying, your small action may cause someone a long-lasting pain,Fatness is not a crime, fat girls are also beautiful and cute, and they are equally worthy of being loved.

'Fat guy' seems to be my nickname, from childhood to now, I have been accompanied by it, my mother said I was very popular when I was a child, everyone wanted to hug this cute chubby,From childhood to now, my appetite is very good, no matter what I eat is fragrant, I will never make my mother worry about eating, my mother said it was 'easy to raise',

Because of my parents' love, I never thought I was different from others, and because of my family's harmony, my personality is open and lively,From elementary school to high school, the classmates I met in school began to pay attention to their figures,

Everyone is good at something, I have always been the funny kid in the class, and in high school, I fell in love with my classmate Akira, he wasn't handsome, and could be said to be ordinary, but he was honest and helpful, so I secretly liked him for two years,

When graduation arrived, everyone was about to go to different places, I knew I should give up this crush, and also knew that Akira was dating classmate Wu Yun,

Entering university, I looked forward to the future like a curious child, about to leave my parents and start my new life,

In my dormitory, I have three good friends: Xiaonuo from the south, Lili, and Kanara from the north, who is known for her personality,

It was also in university that I met Lu Zhe, we were all in the same class, and he was sitting behind me,

I don't know where I offended him, he always teased me, and said I was fat, even making mocking words,

Slowly I became more and more inferior, didn't want to get along with others, except for my dormitory friends, I didn't talk to anyone, and I stayed in the dormitory all day except for class, and I became more and more gloomy,

After that, Lu Zhe never came to find me again, and some male classmates in the class also deliberately avoided me, until graduation I didn't have any contact with him,

Four years after graduation, I got married to Lu Zhe,

That's right, the one who always bullied me, Lu Zhe,

After working for two years, our companies had business dealings, and I was the person to contact him,

After working, I put more effort into my work, and my achievements were outstanding, and I became more confident,

It was after contacting Lu Zhe, that I realized that one month, on Saturday, he called to make an appointment to meet me, I thought he was calling about work,

Saturday was set near my home, I arrived there before he, seeing me a little awkward, I sat down opposite,

'Do you have something to do?'

He opened his mouth and seemed unable to speak, took a sip of coffee, and then decisively looked at me and said, 'I'm very sorry for what I did before, I didn't realize the impact on you, and I've been feeling guilty for many years.'

'I know I did wrong, but I still want to compensate you, and I hope you can forgive me for my youthful ignorance.'

Old wounds were reopened, and the hidden pain surged out again, I looked at Lu Zhe fiercely: 'What are you compensating me for?'

He hesitated and said: 'I don't know, but as long as you need help, I will do my best to help you.'

'That's what you said!'' After saying this, I got up and left,

After contacting Lu Zhe in my work, I would pick at him whenever I worked with him, saying that it wasn't done well or not good, and he just accepted it silently,Not only in work, but also in life, he took care of me, and on my birthday, he gave me a bunch of roses,

I don't know when it started, I didn't seem to be annoyed with him anymore, and I didn't want to pick at him in work, and I began to care about him,Soon after, he confessed to me,

I accepted Lu Zhe's confession, and I knew in my heart that I liked him, and I didn't think he would like me,

After he was with me, he went even further into my life, and I enjoyed his good intentions, and gradually let go of the heart wall,

One year later, Lu Zhe proposed to me,

At the wedding, Lu Zhe cried and said to me: 'The hurt I caused you, if I meet you again, I will understand that I was ignorant before, and when I am with you, I realize that I love you deeply, and I will love you forever.'

After getting married, he no longer teased me about being fat, not even a joke,

The damage can make you lose everything, hurting others at the same time, you may also be hurt.

Is it a crime for fat girls not to be loved?

No,

No matter whether it's tall or fat, everyone is worthy of being loved.

More often, the harm comes from people around us, and I hope that more people will be kind.

Spreading rumors about others won't make you happy.

Once, because of my inferiority complex, I was worried about what others thought of me, which was really uncomfortable.

Therefore, fat girls should not be influenced by others, be more confident, and bravely resist those who bully you.

If you have 'fat girls' around you,

You can't like her, but you shouldn't hurt her,

She is the precious baby cherished by her parents and loved by her family.

If you love someone, you will not let him suffer, and wanting to give him all the good, not harm him.

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