There's a saying that goes, 'Think thrice before you act,' which tells us to think carefully before taking action. When dealing with things, we should be cautious and prudent, not rash or impulsive, otherwise it's difficult to succeed.

A person with a broad perspective is a person who thinks. They never speak without thinking and never do irresponsible things. They live a life of composure and freedom. The bigger the perspective, the wider the mind, the higher the stance, and the farther the sight.

Truly great people are characterized by the following: 1. They never get angry easily, no matter what the situation is. 2. They are silent when there are many people around. 3. They don't care about small matters and let things go.

My cousin, Zhang Shuwei, is 43 years old. He runs a wood processing factory. He has been operating legally for many years and has never evaded taxes. All his licenses and documents are complete. Recently, the police found him and accused him of excessive logging and buying wood from the black market. His workers surrounded him and asked the police, 'Is this how it works? Shouldn't people with power be able to do whatever they want?'

Zhang Shuwei told his workers not to panic. He went to the police station to clarify the situation. Zhang Shuwei went to the police station and learned that someone had reported him, and the evidence was conclusive. Soon, his factory was shut down and required to be rectified. After two weeks of investigation, the police found that the 'evidence' was fabricated. It turned out that the boss of another wood processing factory in the county was jealous of Zhang Shuwei and falsely accused him.

The truth came to light, and the workers wanted Zhang Shuwei to sue the other boss. However, Zhang Shuwei said, 'It's okay, even if it's been a half month since the factory was shut down and we lost a little money, we are all safe and sound. If we make enemies, there will be more and more troubles, and it's not worth it.' Hearing Zhang Shuwei's words, the workers happily resumed their work without mentioning the matter again.

People with a broad perspective don't get impatient or angry when facing difficulties. They insist on taking things slowly and believe in 'purification by clearing, and impurities by clearing.' No matter how big the matter is, as long as it is understood, it is a small matter. When faced with difficulties, if you are angry and impulsive, you will make mistakes. 'Impulsiveness is the devil.'

2. People are silent when there are many people around. 3. They don't care about small matters and let things go.

There's an old saying: 'Let it be, let it be, the sky is wide.' If two people give in to each other, the matter is easily resolved. If two people are petty and stubborn, the matter will only worsen. Whether it's arguing with words or fighting, it's not a good thing.

People with a broad perspective don't care about small matters and let things go. If the neighbors are low-key and don't greet each other, they are always worried about the neighbors' grudges. If the classmates quarrel over small matters, the friendship is broken. If parents and children quarrel over petty things, the family harmony is destroyed. If colleagues quarrel over small matters, it's difficult to cooperate and work together. If strangers quarrel over small matters, it may lead to a conflict.

A person who cares about small matters, such as someone accidentally stepped on your foot, but did not apologize, so you are angry and argue with him, forcing him to apologize. A small matter has led to a fight between the two people, and someone was injured. A person doesn't care about others, seems to be losing and being deceived. In fact, it broadens the mind and makes life freer. For example, if the wife spends a few hundred yuan on a discounted coat that doesn't fit, the husband gets angry and hits her. The couple doesn't speak for a few days, and the husband doesn't want to go home. If the husband is tolerant and says to his wife, 'It's okay, next time be more careful.', the wife will feel guilty and won't spend money carelessly again.

Truly great people aren't measured by their achievements or wealth, but by their broad-mindedness and their good conduct in dealing with people. Such people have a smooth life and have many advantages that we can learn from.

Author: Bu Yi Chou Shi (Rustic Farmer's Notes).

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The pictures in the text come from the internet.

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