In the latter half of life, I just want to be with comfortable people

You are you,You don't need to be sad about others,The rest of your life,You should be with people who make you comfortable,The easiest state of life is being with people you feel comfortable with; you don't need to argue or complain, you don't need to hate or worry, everything you do should follow your inner feelings, as comfortable as you like!

Before, I was immature and used to argue with people, always trying to get the approval of someone, I had to explain myself a lot, but it always made me feel sensitive, even if someone had a slight expression or words, I would become anxious and unhappy,Sometimes, when hurt by people who are opposed to you, you are always unwilling to accept it, and the more you think about it, the more angry you become. But the result is always the same: the person is still the person, it seems like nothing has changed, you are still you, and the person hasn't changed either,Slowly, I realized one thing: if someone recognizes you, they must have a reason to recognize you, they won't change their opinion because of other factors, but if someone doesn't recognize you, even if you say all the beautiful words in the world, they won't change their opinion, and they might even think you're trying too hard to please them,So, what's the meaning of those short-lived relationships that require a lot of explanations and effort? How much time do we have in this life to explain and effort for something like that? There are many things in the world that can yield results with effort, but it's hard to achieve in dealing with people,I often see people arguing fiercely over trivial matters, two people don't let each other, everyone wants to win, it takes two days if they don't get a result out of an argument, and three days if they don't get a result out of two arguments. In their eyes, it's like arguing to get a result, but from others' perspective, the party with a valid argument can be seen as a crazy dog, but when valid and crazy arguments clash, both sides seem like crazy dogs. If you win, it's not worth being proud of; if you lose, others will think you're no better than a crazy dog.

Tell me, what's the use of arguing like that? We should spend our limited time with people who are worth our heartfelt efforts, and with people who make us comfortable. You don't need to spend a lot of time trying to figure out who's good or bad, and you shouldn't worry about saying the wrong thing and making someone unhappy!

When you are with people you feel comfortable with, the people who make you uncomfortable are like jokes, and you become a part of the joke,I have a friend who gets along with me very well, and I feel our relationship is very comfortable. In my relationship with her, I don't need to think about elaborate words to communicate, and I don't need to turn around to make her comfortable. We always speak directly, neither of us suspects the other, and we don't bother each other. We know each other's situation, we understand each other, and what's most precious is that we trust each other. Sometimes, even if we say extreme words, we can handle it well. It's good to chat when you want to chat, and to say what you want to say when you want to say it. It's like another self, you don't need to worry about the relationship,Our lives are precious, and we shouldn't waste our time on unimportant people, especially those who make you feel uncomfortable. You need to know that when you feel uncomfortable, everything you do will lack motivation,And full of resentment, which is a difficult way to treat yourself,So, live comfortably as you like, don't let others influence your own feelings, ignore those who always criticize you, whether it's for what reason, you shouldn't pay too much attention, if someone recognizes you, you'll feel comfortable with whatever they do, if they don't recognize you, whatever they do will make you uncomfortable, and you should choose those who make you comfortable. Don't you think so?

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