Classic Life Insights
1.No matter what happens, first think about whether you did something wrong. If you didn't do anything wrong (which is impossible), then stand in the other person's shoes and experience what they feel.
2.Adapt to the environment, because the environment will never adapt to you. Even if it's a very, very painful process.
3.Be generous. Don't be stingy with generosity. If generosity really hurts you, then pretend to be generous.
4.Be low-key. Be even more low-key than a temporary worker. Maybe people will think you're not even as good as a temporary worker who's been around for a few years!
5.Your words should be sweet. Don't hesitate to praise people. Good praise will make people feel happy, but don't overdo it to the point of being repulsive.
6.If you feel that your work has been going smoothly lately, then be very careful.
7.Be polite. When greeting someone, look them in the eye. When speaking to elders, use their titles and respect their age, because you're simply a junior subordinate,
8.Less is more. 'Speak less and do more,' avoid talking in crowded places.
9.Don't take people's good deeds for granted; be grateful.
10.Don't look down on people.
11.Be punctual, but don't expect others to be.
12.Keep your promises, but don't make rash promises. Don't rely on others' promises.
13.Don't borrow money from colleagues. If you do, you must repay it on time.
14.Don't lend money to colleagues. If you absolutely have to, treat it as a gift.
15.Don't deflect blame (even if it's someone else's responsibility. Taking on a little blame will do you good!)
16.Don't speak badly about colleagues behind their backs in public. Instead, speak well of them. If someone criticizes a colleague in your presence, smile.
17.Avoid open conflicts with colleagues (including openly disagreeing or expressing strong opposition – the latter is especially unwise).
18.Frequently help others, but don't make people feel entitled to help.
19.Sometimes a white lie is more loving than the truth.
20.Focus on the matter, not the person; be ruthless with matters, but compassionate with people; prioritize people above things.
21.Frequently check yourself to see if you're being arrogant, proud, or looking down on others (even if you have extraordinary talents without the cooperation and help of others, it's still a waste!).
22.Patience is a compulsory course in life. (You have to master it for a lifetime; some people may not pass it at all!)
23.When you arrive in a new place, don't rush to join any particular circle. Wait until you've spent enough time, and your own circle will naturally accept you.
24.Maintain a normal attitude. There's nothing major, think of bad things positively, and think of positive things about bad things.
25.Learn to flatter (this is an important way to communicate with your boss), but be careful not to get your hands dirty. Don't use your tongue to lick flattery.
26.Experience is very important. Don't play tricks and fight with old colleagues, or you'll regret it for the rest of your life.
27.Sometimes good intentions lead to bad results, but don't be discouraged.
28.Treat superiors with respect and subordinates with kindness.
29.If you lead a team, when summarizing work, take all the mistakes on yourself and give credit to your subordinates. When your boss and subordinates are both present, remember to praise your subordinates. When criticizing someone, do it only in private.
30.If you think an article is worth reading, then you should comment on it, because your comments will give people the courage to continue and inspire them greatly. At the same time, it will make people grateful to you.
