Measure Everything, Maintain Balance
Let's cherish every inch, and be generous in our dealings with others.
Ten books a day is a good habit.
Don't say everything, don't do everything, leave room for others.
In life, those who grasp the balance and control the scale are often more refined and popular.
When traveling through the world, learn to look but not speak, give others face, and leave room for yourself.
When things are done, leave room for things to be done, and when feelings are expressed, leave room for feelings to be expressed, this is the principle of dealing with people.
After a meal with friends Ziqing and San San, they never came together again.
At the meal, San San kept scolding Ziqing in front of the boy, “She’s always so irritable and angry, you have to tolerate her.”
Ziqing’s face turned red with embarrassment, and the atmosphere became even more awkward.
When interacting with people, be mindful of your demeanor, and don’t casually tease, so as not to make others feel embarrassed.
The deeper the feelings, the more necessary it is to set boundaries, don’t cross the line, lest others feel uncomfortable.
In life, people are kind to each other, and in winter, they warm each other with their closeness, but if they get too close, they will hurt each other.
Trina lived in the Sahara Desert and befriended many of her neighbors, among whom Guka, who lived next door, was her closest friend.
But she always took things from Trina without asking.
Once, she took Trina's high heels to wear for her sister, and the shoes were ruined the next day.
Trina was furious and quarreled with Guka.
Human relationships are like hedgehogs warming each other in the winter; when they are too close, they hurt each other.
Therefore, speak in a measured way, maintain a certain silence, interact with a certain distance, and try to maintain the space of others.
Grasp the balance, be familiar but not overstepping, is a respect for others and a reflection of a person's cultivation.
When dealing with things, know how to retreat, and when dealing with feelings, know how to let go, this is the principle of dealing with people.
The herdsmen understood a principle:
When encountering a plague of locusts, do not return all the crops to the mountain and let the sparrows and eagles have some, so that they have the strength to drive away the locusts the following year.
Whatever you do, don’t be too extreme, don’t make it absolute, this is a kind of tolerance, and also a way out for yourself.
When Hillary published her autobiography, a talk show host didn’t hold back and commented: “No one wants to read this book, if it sells 1 million copies, I will swallow my shoes.”
As a result, the book sold surprisingly well, exceeding 1 million copies within a few weeks.
Later, Hillary and the host were on a show together, and the host mentioned the matter, admitting that he had been wrong, and Hillary smiled and handed him the book, signed: “After selling 1 million copies, the first edition.”
Just as everyone was laughing heartily, she suddenly presented a shoe-shaped cake and said: “This is for you.”
Faced with sarcasm, Hillary didn’t respond fiercely or gloat, but instead used a humorous and tolerant way to resolve the conflict, maintaining the dignity of the other party and winning more respect.
As the saying goes, be generous and give others a space.
When dealing with things, don’t be too extreme, and when dealing with feelings, don’t be too rigid.
Judgment of people should be measured, not to underestimate others’ abilities, not to overestimate one’s own accomplishments, in order to see one’s own position and gain true respect.
Whatever you do, be moderate, and in life, it is only when you have a moderate approach that you can widen the road and smooth the way.
I wish we could all be people who understand the balance and have a clear understanding of ourselves, and can freely roam in life.
For encouragement.
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