Aesop said, 'Never look down on anyone, for no one is weak enough to not seek revenge on their insults.'

In our lives, everyone hopes to be respected and recognized by others. But reality is reality, we cannot be loved by everyone like money, we will always have some people look down on themselves. Maybe it's not because you didn't do a good job. It's just that some people have a biased view of others.

In fact, not everyone is kind. Some people may appear to be very respectful of others and have a very good relationship. But behind their backs, they look down on him, and there is no place for him in their hearts.

Therefore, if someone says these few things to you, you should be careful, he might be looking down on you or despising you.

One, you don't know how to do such simple things

said, 'Self-satisfaction harms people; self-humiliation benefits people.'

A few days ago, when I was talking to my old friend, I was deeply touched. That night I left work early and returned to the dormitory. The dormitory was a mess, like a pile of garbage. There was dirt and mud on the floor, with some cement.

Actually, the landlord had told me before that the electrician was going to install a ventilation hole in the dormitory bathroom. I didn't expect him to make the room so dirty and messy. So I sent him a message to complain and vent my dissatisfaction. The landlord also said he would clean the dormitory tomorrow, and I didn't say anything, just replied 'Okay.'

I quickly tidied up, and then my roommate came back. I talked to him and complained about how dirty the room was. Finally, he said, 'What did you say?'

I was upset and replied, 'Nothing, it's just a small matter.' This isn't the first time it's happened. Sometimes he just doesn't pay attention when he talks, and he doesn't really listen to what I'm saying.

And when the lease period is over, I didn't rent with him anymore.

Sometimes, when someone says 'What did you say?' it's particularly disrespectful. This means that when you're talking, the other person didn't really pay attention to you.

This shows that such a person doesn't respect you, and even despises you, so you shouldn't waste your face on him. It's better to avoid these people who don't respect you and get rid of them quickly.

Three, let's do it next time, I'm busy now

If someone always asks you to do something and you hear them say 'Let's do it next time, I'm busy now,' it might be because they're really busy. But if they do this again and again, it means they don't really want to help you.

My friend Lao Xu, his daughter was about to enter school, and Lao Xu hadn't found a good school yet. He called him for help, but when he called the first time, he wanted to ask for help, but the phone was picked up and he said, 'Let's talk about it next time, I'm busy now.' Lao Xu didn't bother to call again.

A few days later, Lao Xu called him again and said, 'Let's talk about it next time, I'm busy now.'

Now, people have different economic levels and social statuses. The old friends have changed with the passage of time and the changes in society. Some have become vain, or even looked down on others.

When we talk to someone, if they say 'What did you say?' it's particularly disrespectful. This means that when you're talking, the other person didn't really pay attention to you.

This shows that such a person doesn't respect you, and even despises you, so you shouldn't waste your face on him. It's better to avoid these people who don't respect you and get rid of them quickly.

The text is submitted by Liu Yi Miao

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