Life is short, cherish the busy person who is always available for you.
A lifetime is a journey of searching, searching for someone who cares about and loves you. You've walked a long way, do you have someone like that by your side?
At some point, you want to eat your favorite snacks, and he'll go to any lengths to buy them for you. Then seeing you enjoy them beautifully, he'll feel particularly fulfilled.
You want to see someone's concert, and he'll always find a way to get tickets and wait for you at your building's downstairs.
Because of some things, you can't sleep, and you're restless, he's willing to stay with you until very late. You know he's busy, with endless things to do, but as long as you need him, he'll spare all his time for you.
In real life, many people gradually drift away. Because the two sides are very tired of being together, the root cause is that one side doesn't value her enough. If one person is submissive and stays with him, the response he gets is lukewarm and indifferent. Ask him if he cares about you, and the answer is just vague. That kind of attitude is truly disappointing.
Often, you know he's never truly cared about you. Maybe it's just that he feels you're a 'bargain' for him, and it's all self-deception. You want to change him, but he doesn't put you first. In his emotional world, you're just an afterthought.
Do you know if he has you in his heart? He has never proactively cared about you. When you want to chat with him, he just gives vague words and waits for you. You should know, don't deceive yourself.
In your emotional world, he is the only one you can confide in, and his world is vast, and you might just be one of many.
If a person has you in his heart, your joys and sorrows will be related to him. Your every smile and move will touch his heart.
A person who cares about you won't let you wait in the wind, he won't want you to be sad, and he won't want you to be ignored or cold. Even if he's walking in the cold wind, he won't let you freeze.
A person who doesn't care about you will ignore your words as they enter his ear, you say something, he just hums, and he doesn't care about your affairs.
When you see through it, you stop deceiving yourself and stop obsessively pursuing him. The person who is indifferent and cold-blooded doesn't put you in his heart. It's better to let go and take care of yourself.
If you really want to see him, he will make an effort to find time, but if he always has too many excuses, it's just because he doesn't want to care.
In this world, whether it's family, love, or friendship, it's like this. You may be busy, but you can't always wait for someone who doesn't care about you. It's better to let him go and let yourself go. You have your self-respect, and your time shouldn't be wasted on hopeless love.
Live your best life. Believe that one day, you will surely meet someone who understands you and has free time for you.
That person, no matter how fierce the wind and rain, or the mountains and rivers, he won't stop coming to you.
When you see him dust himself off, when you see his heartache when you see your injured hands scratched with thorns, he says, 'It hurts, doesn't it? You smile and say, 'It doesn't hurt, just seeing you is the best medicine.'
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