Have Our Old Friends Still Remain?
Meeting people from all corners of the world is common, but how few truly understand and share our deepest thoughts? The joy of encountering someone new, like a first meeting, endures until the end of our days, free from regret.
This is a quote from the *Zhengyuan*, meaning that while many people may know us, very few truly understand and share our innermost thoughts and feelings.
Human relationships should always resemble a first encounter. Even in old age, we shouldn't harbor resentment. This is only achievable through two individuals with shared values and a deep understanding of each other.
Friendship should always be like a first meeting – respectful and considerate. If relationships become stale, they'll inevitably turn sour, affecting both friendships and romantic relationships.
When approaching friendship, maintaining the initial friendliness and respect prevents misunderstandings and resentment, ensuring a long-lasting bond.
Combining this with the preceding statement – 'Know your enemy, know yourself, and you'll surely prevail; know your friend, and you'll know your heart' – emphasizes the importance of genuine understanding and empathy. We must approach our friendships with open hearts, avoiding judgment and prioritizing the feelings of others.
It's most valuable to remain steadfast in one's character, and the most precious thing is to preserve one's original intentions.
Sometimes, looking back, we realize 'People don't need many things; as long as we live healthily and love sincerely, that's enough'.
