Does Growth Necessarily Require Solitude? In fact, ‘Loneliness’ is a Treasure
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Author/Snow Sister said:
Lonely Six Lecturessaid:
Loneliness isn't bad; what makes it bad is your fear of being lonely.
Someone asked me:Do I have to be lonely to grow up?
I don't think so. I think 'loneliness' is actually a treasure of life.
01.
Garcia Marquez said:
The past is false, memories are a road without end, past springs cannot be restored, even the most passionate and resilient love is ultimately a fleeting reality, only loneliness is eternal.
Actually, I think the noise of friendships is lively, but if you want to achieve a complete growth, you must endure the pain of loneliness, because only in loneliness can you more deeply and seriously examine yourself.
For example: You worked for a whole day, and possibly did many things that day. But not all things were perfect, you want to grow, you need to think about what things you weren't doing well, and what ways you can improve them next time. Only by constantly maintaining thought, do you have the ability and space to progress.
Imagine: If a person doesn't go to think about what they did every day, working with colleagues and doing one task after another, we can't reflect on ourselves, and after getting off work, we will eat dinner with colleagues and friends, busy until late, if we don't leave ourselves any space to reflect on ourselves, then the next day we are actually no different from the day before, and we actually have no growth.
Therefore, growth comes from loneliness, and 'loneliness' is definitely a treasure of life.
02.
Shatrans said:
Adapting to loneliness is like adapting a disability.
A person wants to grow up, he must adapt to loneliness, imagine when we first started, who isn't willing to be a member of a gang, because only in that way can we show our identity and status, can show our power, so we desperately want to gather. But as we grow older, we seem to be able to calmly face loneliness, just like Mr. Shatrans said, we seem to have adapted to loneliness, just like adapting a disability.
Just like climbing stairs, stairs are public roads, and there will be people coming and going, facing all kinds of strangers and unfamiliar environments on each floor. If we always avoid them, we can never grow. We can only bravely face and accept and adapt to the unfamiliar environment, and slowly complete an exploration process, so that we can forge a strong self, and finally shape a complete self.
03.
Actually, not everyone likes loneliness. If there is always a warm hand by your side, who would willingly be lonely? But we have to admit that everyone is an independent individual, and we all have dreams to achieve and people to become.
At the same time, because everyone is an independent individual, we believe that there are no two completely identical leaves in this world, so we deeply believe that our thoughts are not accepted by everyone.
Rather than that, we'd better calmly accept loneliness, use the time of loneliness to forge a truly different self.
Conclusion:
Goethe said:
A soul can learn in society, but inspiration only emerges in loneliness.
A great soul can only be further elevated in the space of loneliness, even if they don't receive understanding from anyone at this time, they can achieve self-satisfaction in enriching themselves.
When our hearts become strong, at that time, we can better examine and recognize ourselves, and then become a more perfect self.
Therefore, your loneliness is glorious defeat.
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Today's topic: Do you think growth needs to be lonely?
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