People Who Post Like This Are Worth Deeply Connecting With
'Moments may not all be friends.'
Not everyone in your Moments is worth deep friendship, only the people who post in their Moments can be your best friends, don't miss it.
Never surf
Human connections are maintained by sincerity, not by constantly seeking existence.
A person's sense of existence should only be in their own life, not in the lives of others.
'Constantly posting irrelevant content to surf' is one of the most hated behaviors according to many surveys.
Many people don't understand:'I'm just sharing my life, why am I so hated by so many people.'
But don't forget the original purpose of your posts, whether it's for a compliment, a comment, or to gain attention and approval.
Everyone has their own life, besides paying attention to others' lives, there are also the road beneath your feet. Perhaps your unintentional surfing is affecting others' lives without realizing it.
As the saying goes, 'Everything has its measure. In dealing with people, one should not exceed this measure.'
Once you exceed the limit, you will find that the original friends used for surfing have lost you more friends.
Born as a human being, live your own life, live well, you don't have to necessarily get recognition and encouragement from others.
Don't overestimate your position in the eyes of others, don't overestimate yourself.
It's okay to admire each other among friends, but don't force it, and consider others' feelings.
Truly worthy friends are those who have something to talk about when they get together, and they can be well when they part ways, they don't affect each other or worry about each other.
This kind of true friendship is the best way to maintain friendship, and surfing-style 'intrusion' into others' lives will only backfire.
If you have a friend who never surfs, but records genuine feelings, be bold and interact with him, such a friend is worth making friends with.
Record your real life
Realness is the constant melody of life.
Friends who showcase their real life in Moments are the true friends we can make.
As Xiao Xiao said in 'Variety Showdown':
'Often the most real self is the one you're most outspoken and don't respect.'
Many people are unwilling to show such a realistic side that may be a little ugly to their friends, only they know their true selves, they always present a polished and sophisticated image to others.
The American film 'Your Fake Self' satirically presented the various roles people play in society.
The 3-minute video presented the different identities people play today:
'Morning, do a full makeup and still lie in bed pretending to be sleepy,' 'Haven't exercised for a long time, take out the equipment to take a few pictures,' 'Participate in a gathering and don't speak for the whole time, then take a happy photo,' 'Everyone is happy in society, needs friends, who is a true friend, who is a superficial friend, this is clearly displayed in the Moments.'
In Moments, talk about life, talk about ideals, and people who talk about chicken soup every day may not even know their own goals.
In Moments, those who always show off their exquisite food and 'high-end travel' may be lying on a sofa, repairing pictures;
In Moments, those who always show off their love and complain may have not communicated with their families for a long time;
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Moments are not real, many people have said so, 'Moments are full of falsehood, full of fake, there are many, but there is no sincerity.'
Life is difficult, if you need to spend time and effort to distinguish between true and false, it's really hard.
So the friend who's unique and openly and honestly displays himself is more worthy of our cherishing.
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Always positive and optimistic
An open and cheerful person will always bring warmth to those around him.
Recently, a new word 'trash person' has been frequently mentioned.
So-called 'trash people' are those who are disappointed and vent their negative emotions in Moments, spreading them everywhere.
'A father scolded his child for getting criticized at work and returned home to scold the child for jumping on the cat,' 'The child was angry and kicked the cat to jump on the ground,' 'The cat ran to the street, and a truck rushed over, and the driver hit the boss.'
This is the 'kick cat effect' caused by the spread of negative emotions.
In life, everyone has some negative emotions, but a positive person chooses to release these emotions independently, not to spread them in Moments.
No one wants to receive these complaints and gloomy feelings, but negative emotions affect people's emotions subtly.
Gradually, those friends who spread negative energy will 'infect' us, and eventually our emotions will be affected.
No matter how frustrating the reality is, we want to share positive things in Moments, and this is a reflection of our attitude towards life.
A person who hears a saying: 'Positive people always find the positive side in bad things. Negative people will always find the bad side even in good things.'Moments are the best reflection of a person's attitude towards life. A friend who can manage his Moments well is definitely not a bad person.When you have such a friend, he will influence you, his sunshine will illuminate you, his optimism will infect you.
If you have such a friend around you, don't hesitate, befriend him, you will definitely gain a lot.
Close to the red, be stained red; close to the black, be stained black.
The person you make friends with will become the person you are.
Therefore, when making friends, you must be cautious.
Moments are a small society, a friend who can manage his Moments well is definitely not a bad person.
They live with purpose and sincerity, reliable and warm, and optimistic. With such friends, we can face the challenges of life bravely.
May we all find such friends, accompany us, and walk together.
