Instead of Fighting Over Petty Arguments, It's Better to Strive for Self-Improvement
Being confronted with the truth is embarrassing, it must be because you previously distorted the other person, and therefore you couldn't hold your face. To be able to hold a person distorted to such an extent, your own consciousness must be equally flawed. Everyone's inner world is unpredictable, and this is why society has become so complex.
Before the truth arrives, suspicion and caution always come first. Trust is indeed shattered. Don't blame people for being narrow-minded; many narrow-mindedness are born from being driven to it. A person's openness and generosity depend on their character and the society they live in. In a world of deception, if you don't embrace cunning, it's hardly a bad thing. Being open and honest may not be effective; you still need to ask about the red face and black face, and explore the depth of water and shallow water. This is a philosophy of life and a reflection of the survival instinct in a dangerous society.
A little cunning is necessary to deal with the wickedness of the world. If everyone is sincere, it won't necessarily be a good thing. Sincerity can only work on people who are receptive to it. There are so many flattering gestures in the world; they cannot exchange for reciprocity. You still need to ask about the red face and black face, and explore the depth of water and shallow water. This is a philosophy of life and a reflection of the survival instinct in a dangerous society.
Instead of testing a person, don't test them. Many friendships are lost because of this. No one wants to live in the shadow of your suspicion and doubt. It may just be that they are looking for a clear answer; the other person is giving up their dignity and respect.
A person doesn't need to be tested if you've known them for a short time; if you've been together for a long time, you don't need to test them. You've already fallen so deeply in love with them, entangled in loyalty and seeking substance, which is pointless. It's better to let them go, so that the person who can truly satisfy you can come into your life early.
On that day, I saw Kennedy's family's advice to their children: the first-place student will never be ignored. It's good, it's hoped that all parents can teach their children like this. If not rich second generation or official second generation, their abilities are about the only way to be respected in the world. Besides, wealth will eventually run out, and power will eventually change hands. Everything external can disappear, but ability will always remain.
The secular society won't spare you because you don't have the ability. People admire and look up to those who have the ability. This means that if you don't have the ability, you can't expect people to respect you, which is a natural law. Despite the equality of life, those with the ability will always be respected and looked up to.
Many people are enraged by being looked down upon and use this to motivate themselves to success. Every successful person has been humiliated in the past, but they have turned it into the strength to achieve their goals.
