If you love, love deeply; if you abandon, abandon completely.
If you love, love deeply, if you want to abandon, abandon completely, don't be ambiguous, love hurts both you and the other person. The biggest regrets in life are easily giving up what shouldn't be given up and stubbornly persisting in what shouldn't be persisted.
A mindset creates a life; don't complain, create your own life. Life needs a sanctuary—find peace of mind, lightly observe the world, and that's a form of transcendence. Even if life is unsolvable, calmly walk through it; even if time passes and we age, we can still quietly observe the beauty of life. Perhaps, you won't know what 'cause and effect' is without experiencing life; perhaps, you won't know how to live peacefully without experiencing the vicissitudes of time. Life is about self-reflection.
There will always be a fall, or a tear, that prompts us to grow in the moment, transforming us from restlessness to serenity, from muddiness to clarity, gradually controlling ourselves and avoiding conflict, without dwelling on the past, without judging right and wrong, and appreciating the flourishing of life's flowers in quietness. Don't worry about setbacks; they are the salt of our destiny. Let life have more flavors; don't refuse to be vulnerable; crying and laughing are both human; going forward with tears is also a kind of strength.
Gold has no bottom; people have no perfect person. Be sincere and humble when being a person, treat others kindly, and warm yourself. People are for themselves to see. Don't expect everyone to understand you, don't demand everything to go as you wish. In hardship, learn to comfort yourself. If no one pities you, you must be strong; if no one applauds, you must fly; if no one appreciates you, you must be fragrant.
