Quote from Guigu: It's difficult to achieve success without social skills; do these three things, and people will respect you, and you'll find yourself surrounded by favorable connections!
Don't let words pierce your bones, and don't mock people's illnesses with levity. Exposing someone's faults inevitably leads to resentment; revealing someone's secrets inevitably leads to suspicion. Knowing how to socialize can double the effectiveness of things; being poor at socializing makes it impossible to move forward step by step.As the saying goes, it's hard to succeed if you're not good at socializing; lacking strategy leads to nothing but regret. Do these three things, and people will respect you and you'll find yourself surrounded by favorable connections:

First: Don't let water leak from small places, nor hide yourself in dark corners. A moment's carelessness is the starting point of mistakes; a moment's rupture is the end of mistakes. Everything is important, and doing things to the best of your ability isn't just for others to see, it's for your own growth. Carelessness and deception, even if they succeed temporarily, will eventually be exposed.
Second: If your heart is too obvious about good and bad, things won't go well; if you clearly distinguish between wise and foolish people, you won't be close to anyone. People seek perfection, but reality is never perfect. Don't judge the world based on your own value, and don't let mundane mediocrity affect you. Anything that's too obviously right or wrong won't work; this is because of a lack of tolerance. Being 'just right' is often the best way to deal with things, while also having a clear understanding and being adaptable.
Third: When you're in a narrow road, retreat to let the other person pass, and you'll achieve mutual benefit; when you want to speak straight, be tactful and measured. Speaking like water, doing things seamlessly – knowing how to speak and do things makes it easier to establish yourself; knowing how to do things makes success easier; and if you can do both, then your approach to life will always be successful.
Editor's summary: Knowing how to speak is a capital; knowing how to do things is a skill. There's nothing in life that can't be done, only people who can't do things are either in poor relationships or they haven't overcome difficulties. Talking and doing things well, people will respect you and you'll find yourself surrounded by favorable connections!

