Smart People, One Life, 3 Don'ts to Understand
What is intelligence?I think making the same mistake twice is stupid.Even the smartest people make mistakes, so intelligence isn't about not making mistakes, but about not being confused.
What is the same mistake?It's either a mistake you've made once, or a mistake that others make is clearly a mistake.Smart people never get confused on these mistakes, that's why they're smart people.
How many of these have you done?
1, Money, don't be confused
A person who's confused about money, either owes someone money and doesn't want to pay it back, or someone borrows from him and he doesn't want to lend it out.Such a person isn't smart at all.Not paying back money is being impudent, not lending money is being petty, neither of which is what a smart person would do. Being clear about money is a way to use money effectively.
Promptly returning borrowed money, helping someone in need – these are ways to gain popularity. Popularity enhances one's image, which is what a smart person would do.
Being confused about money is a recipe for trouble, and people will look down on you if you're confused about it. It could even cause conflicts.
A smart person wouldn't create problems for himself. Would he be confused about this?2, Emotion, don't be confused
In the workplace, you should never be confused about emotions. If you are, you'll accumulate 'emotional debts' that are difficult to repay, and you'll be led by others.
This isn't what a smart person would do. A smart person knows what to do and what not to do, and won't blindly follow others.
People who are confused about emotions are likely trying to take advantage of others. If that's the case, they'll eventually suffer a setback.
You should be clear about what you should and shouldn't do.If you're not clear about these three things, you'll make the same mistake twice. Even if you're a smart person, you might be called stupid.
No one dares to say they'll never be confused once in their lives, but smart people can minimize the number of times they're confused, while stupid people keep making mistakes.
Many people want to be smart, but they don't want to spend time and effort, and they're easily confused. If you can solve these three problems, you won't be easily confused.
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