In today's era of (jūrmín jiǎnféi - everyone's dieting), finding a slim and trendy beauty is the dream of every man.

But in fact, there are many overweight women in life, and many of them successfully get married and have children. Let's hear what three men have to say about the feeling of having an overweight wife.

1 (Zhāng xiānshēng - Zhang Mr)

Zhang Mr and his wife met at 26, at that time, the woman was 168cm tall and weighed 100 (jīn - jīn -, a unit of weight), her tight hot pants perfectly showcased her slim figure.

Men are just like this, they fall in love with women at first sight.

In the first month of dating, Mr. Zhang took his girlfriend to eat all the best restaurants in the city, watching his girlfriend enjoy a large meal with great satisfaction, Mr. Zhang felt proud.

Three months passed, and the woman's weight increased to 120, and at this time, the two began to prepare for their wedding.

Seeing his wife's slightly chubby figure before entering the wedding hall, Mr. Zhang said to himself, 'It's better to be slightly plump, a slim woman is too unattractive.'

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It wasn't until after their marriage for two years that the woman's weight reached 150, and she no longer restricted her diet and exercise to lose weight, but instead searched for large-sized women's clothing all over the city, hoping to showcase her 'slim' figure through clothes.

While his husband didn't want to see his wife's figure gradually changing, he said to himself with resentment, 'The pencil that I liked before is gone, it's just a pencil case, what can I do? We'll just make it through.'

For women, there's nothing better than controlling their weight to reassure men's inner feelings. Rather than those sad tears after divorce, it's better to sweat in the gym.

2 (Zhōu xiānshēng - Zhou Mr)

Mr. Zhou and his wife have been married for five years, and his wife is a very standard 'fat woman'.

Unlike Mr. Zhang, Mr. Zhou's wife was a 'fat woman' since the beginning of their relationship, but he still wholeheartedly married her.

After marriage, Mr. Zhou's friends always teased his wife's figure, and they were particularly puzzled by their combination.

Mr. Zhou smiled and explained the situation, 'I need a car but don't have one, I have a house but don't have one, which beautiful woman would look at me, unless she does.'

'So you're willing to sacrifice your happiness for a lifetime?' his friend expressed with disdain.

Mr. Zhou said, 'My wife may not be beautiful, but she's safe wherever she is. She also knows she's overweight, so she's always tolerant of me at home, and she does all the housework, I just eat and sleep, that's a good arrangement.'

Marriage has no need to care about other people's opinions, happiness depends on one's inner feelings. Finding an overweight wife for a lifetime may not necessarily bring happiness.

3 (Zhèng xiānshēng - Zheng Mr)

Mr. Zheng, 28 years old, is currently in the middle of blind dating, and his relatives always advise him to find a girl who is a little 'fat', with a kind heart and inner quality, which is better than women who only know how to make up and dress up.

But Mr. Zheng said a classic sentence that made his relatives speechless.

'I know I should find a woman with inner qualities for marriage, but those overweight women just look at me for three seconds, I don't know if she has inner qualities, and I don't want to know,'

This is what many men's inner voices said. Most men who are members of the Appearance Committee still want to marry a slim beauty to be loyal to their inner feelings.