Waiting is not stubbornness, it's simply that I'm also curious and want to see how much I like you.
A person falls in love with a stream because they haven't seen the sea. But I've seen the Milky Way, yet I only love a single star.
Some people choose to be guarded first, only becoming friendly after receiving enough love. I, on the other hand, am naturally passionate and eager to please, giving endlessly until I was hurt and learned my lesson. It's hard to say which way is better, they might avoid unknown pain, but I met you.
Slowly, you will realize that there are truly not many things in life worth sacrificing politeness, manners, character, and perspective for.
If you can't please someone no matter what you do, then choose to give up. That's the best approach.
Please, please, please don't assume you have a certain position in someone else's heart. The result will be very awkward. If personalities clash, you can compromise; if you can't, break up; otherwise, love will turn into pain, and being together will become a torment. Others will say it's a sign of not loving someone enough, but the pain you feel is your own.
We keep our hearts open because we're afraid of losing someone. We don't refuse, we put in a lot of effort to please, but it doesn't matter if everyone likes you. Recognizing your importance in someone else's heart will make you happier.
A man's love is a subtraction system: at first, everything about him is good, his flaws are irrelevant, and you give him a full score; but as time goes on, the score gets lower and lower, eventually failing to pass. Therefore, he leaves you. A woman's love is an addition system: at the beginning, you can pick out all his flaws, and as time passes, you get used to his life, and the score keeps increasing; you can't live without him, and he loses patience, so you suffer.
'I like you' means: From now on, you have the ability to hurt me.
Waiting is not stubbornness, I just want to see how much I like you.
