If someone frequently says the following three phrases to you, it indicates they fundamentally look down on you; don't have deep interactions with them.
Our friends should be those who have mutual value recognition with us, what we often say is 'like minds and like spirits,' 'same frequency resonance.' If someone simply never looked down on you or didn't care about you at all, the more you get to know him, the greater the harm you will suffer. Especially if someone frequently says the following three phrases, they are people who look down on you, you shouldn't have deep contact and interaction with them,1You just do as you please—Whether it's your proposal or communication, he uses this to deflect his own shortcomings, which is a way of looking down on you.Actually, this phrase seems harmless, as if he's supporting you and following your intentions. In reality, it means he doesn't care about you at all, because he doesn't know what you want, and he doesn't understand your information. Therefore, if someone frequently says this to you, don't put your hopes on him; nine times out of ten, he's deceiving you.
2I have no time—This is always the excuse, actually he simply doesn't want to play with you.If occasionally there are two or three times, he genuinely has more important things to do, if he's always like this, you've already lost the close relationship you thought you had. He never truly valued you, and he only maintained contact to avoid embarrassing himself. For such people, we should completely despair.
3I forgot—Even though you've agreed on something, if he forgets about it after you remind him, it proves he doesn't value you. If someone can say this with a grand explanation and no guilt, it means he never considered your matter or included it in his area of concern. Therefore, if you entrust him with something, he will always use this way to make you lose confidence in him. When we know the true nature of this person, we should proactively protect ourselves and prevent further deep hurt. It's our top priority not to rely on our feelings or be easily deceived by beautiful words. Sometimes, the more beautiful the words, the worse the situation might be. People are sometimes fragile, complex and simple at the same time.
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