True Love Won't Make You Feel Pain
I think there is a love in the world that allows you to be yourself, she can give you strength, make you a better you.
And, there is a 'love' that makes you feel tired, makes you feel lacking, makes you want to avoid.
To illustrate the difference between the two.
Here, I want to share a poem with you first, from Roy Croft's 'Love'.
I love you,
Not just because of the way you are,
But because when I am with you,
My way is also.
I love you,
Not just because you do things for me,
But because,
For you,
I can achieve things.
I love you,
Because you can evoke,
My truest part.
I love you,
Because you pierce through my mind's wildness,
Like sunlight piercing crystal, it is easy,
My silliness, my weaknesses.
In your gaze, they hardly exist.
But the most beautiful places in my heart,
Are illuminated by your light.
Others don't bother to go so far,
They find it too troublesome to search,
So no one has ever discovered my beauty,
So no one has ever come here.
This kind of love is captivating.
Today I want to talk about the love, it is a broad love.
I think, this love is an energy. It is flowing.When does this energy appear?
I often see that some babies carefully observe the people around them, just as people observe them. Then she suddenly giggles, and a whole room of people also laughs, that laugh is a real laugh, from the heart. I think this is the energy.
You transmit energy to me, disturb my energy, then they flow,
We often make each other give way on buses and subways. When we give way, we both feel happy.
Similarly, in family relationships, there are those who respect each other, and there are those who give and receive, but there is no love.
For example, a teacher who has a lot of energy will comfort children who cry, accept their emotions, understand their needs, and children will soon show their smiles, accompanied by trust to the teacher, and the teacher will also have more energy, become better.
But some teachers without energy will be very annoyed when children cry, scold children, children will become more timid or rebellious, teachers will become more annoyed, affecting work and life.
But,
Without energy, it doesn't mean we are wrong.
Just hope that we can realize this. Learn to accumulate energy, rather than trying to empty ourselves.
If you don't have energy, don't go to those who have energy, focus on yourself, or do nothing.
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