New Moms, Do You Still Remember That Girl?
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I don't know why, even though I'm 28 years old now, even though I'm Momma En's mom, I still feel like I'm still that young girl who just took off all her burdens after finishing high school. Maybe that year when I crashed headfirst after falling, something got damaged in my brain that signified 'growing up'?
Today, Enbaby is 9 months old, I've been a mom for 9 months, he's growing up, and I believe I can slowly come out of depression.
In the previous 10 months, I went through all the ridiculous, over-the-top melodrama that played out in those TV dramas where a girl would be biting an apple and looking down on watching shows, I learned about the hardships of life, understood the nature of love, experienced the freedom of life, and finally emerged from the darkness and saw the light in the distance.
Ladies, even as a mother, I still like to call us 'ladies'.
Ladies, maybe you're crying while holding your baby, maybe you're hysterically crying and desperately trying to save what you think is your love, maybe you think you're trapped in darkness and want to abandon this evil world… but have you ever thought about yourself? Not about how much pain you've endured, not about your lover's betrayal, but about the young, naive girl who once dreamed of a beautiful life with her lover and baby. Have you forgotten how beautiful you once were, have you forgotten how much you longed for life, and have you forgotten the colorful dreams you had when envisioning the future. At this point, ladies, do you realize you haven't thought about what you like or what you yearn for in a long, long time?
Trust me, don't panic, don't complain and regret, don't cry yourself to sleep, don't rely on anyone, don't force yourself to let go of your obsession, just quietly miss the girl you once were. Slowly calm yourself down, starting today, do one small thing every day that you enjoy, kiss your baby, hug yourself, tell yourself, 'Ladies, you deserve all the good things.' Slowly, you will return to the colorful world again.
At that time, you will be full of sunshine, bright and adorable, you are still you.
