For people you don't love, you must be ruthless.
What is ambiguity? Ambiguity is mutual attraction and mutual liking between a couple. When we talk about ambiguity, we always think of inappropriate emotions, as if ambiguity is cheating, or a synonym for infidelity. But in fact, isn't every relationship started with ambiguity? People just happen to have many ambiguous relationships. Especially in today's impatient society, ambiguity causes endless frustration and hurt. If you don't reject or push away someone who doesn't like you, you're letting them suffer in endless hope and pain.
You can be ambiguous with someone you love, but you must learn to be ruthless with someone you don't love. As the saying goes, short pain is better than long pain. It's better to let the other person know your feelings early on, which is a responsible choice for your own emotions, and also a responsible choice for the other person. Even if you don't want to hurt them, you must be decisive.
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Many people enjoy the feeling of being surrounded by the opposite sex, and they forget how to truly love one person. They have many ambiguous relationships, they enjoy it, they are immersed in the romantic scenery, and they can't stop themselves. This sense of accomplishment brought by ambiguity also makes them forget the feeling of truly loving someone.
If you don't like someone, you shouldn't give them a feeling of being near and far. You shouldn't give them any opportunities, no matter how small. For someone who likes you but you don't like, you must make up your mind to break the connection, which is a necessary action to protect him and protect yourself.
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It's the most helpless feeling to like someone, and that person only wants to be ambiguous with you; It's the most shameful thing for him to like you, and you only want to be ambiguous with him. Using protection as an excuse, but being ambiguous, using indifference as an excuse, tying others up – these practices are all reprehensible.
People all yearn for a beautiful love and a perfect partner, but it's hard to achieve. Some give opportunities to those they don't like, while others wait for the right person to appear. Sometimes, love is fate, and sometimes, love is just a habit. Some people just have a slight attraction to each other and get together, and if they're happy, that's enough to define it as love.
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It's the most helpless feeling to like someone, and that person only wants to be ambiguous with you; It's the most shameful thing for him to like you, and you only want to be ambiguous with him. Using protection as an excuse, but being ambiguous, using indifference as an excuse, tying others up – these practices are all reprehensible.
No matter how ruthless or compassionate you are towards someone you don't like, you must be prepared to face the consequences. Perhaps ending it early is the best choice for both of you. Ambiguity is your dying struggle in this long process, but the ending is still painful. When you don't reject someone you don't like when they express their feelings, it will be seen as an opportunity by them.
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It's the most helpless feeling to like someone, and that person only wants to be ambiguous with you; It's the most shameful thing for him to like you, and you only want to be ambiguous with him. Using protection as an excuse, but being ambiguous, using indifference as an excuse, tying others up – these practices are all reprehensible.
