May we all be such gentle people. Being loved by this world is really good.

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Once I chatted with a friend, I asked her, 'How did you notice that your current boyfriend?'

She said, 'Once, some colleagues were chatting together, she was telling a story, her voice wasn't loud, and the content wasn't very interesting. She said a few words, and soon a colleague interrupted her. The colleague started talking about his own things, and everyone burst into laughter. She was a little frustrated.'

But the boyfriend suddenly turned to her and said, 'You continue telling your story. Later, everyone's attention returned to her, so she finished the story. At that moment, she felt cared for.'

Hearing this story, I found it particularly warm.There are always some very gentle people in this world, they are educated and empathetic, they care about your feelings, you will feel that such people are warm.

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Once I encountered a mother and daughter in the restroom of Disneyland, while taking a bath, the child just finished eating, and was seriously washing his hands and rinsing his mouth. At this time, the mother suddenly said, 'Your head should be lower when rinsing your mouth, so that the water spray won't splash onto others.'

The child reluctantly said, 'There's no one else beside me…' The mother continued, 'If the water splashes onto the tiles, the cleaning aunties and uncles will also be very tired.'

At that moment, I thought this mother was more like a princess than the princess in the park.This kind of consideration for others is not just an external cultivation, but also an inner goodness, making some people who had no previous connection feel that they were also being quietly loved.

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I have a best friend, whenever I see a funny segment, I will send it to her, and we will laugh together, and she will fill the screen with haha,

In fact, her profession is to write segments on Weibo. I only found out unintentionally that many of the segments I had previously posted came from colleagues at the same company, which means she had already seen many of them.

I asked her, 'Why don't you ever say you've seen it before, and still pretend to be surprised?' She said, 'How could I pretend? I really found it funny, and when you share things that make you happy with me, how can I spoil your fun?'

It's rare to have a friend who will never spoil your fun.

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A netizen once shared her daily life with her husband online: 'I was unwell and had a bad attitude towards my husband. My husband didn't get angry, but instead cared about what was wrong with me. After I apologized to him, I asked him, 'Why were you so gentle towards me?' My husband replied, 'If I got angry, we would fall into negative energy, and this chain should be cut off.'

The post got more than ten thousand likes. If you ask me, what kind of people are truly brave? This husband might be one of them.

Even when receiving negative energy, they can still maintain gentleness; even when they are most sad, they won't release their anger.We often struggle with many things: unsolvable problems, overtime work, people we dislike… But in the end, we struggle with ourselves, always blaming ourselves for making things this way. But those gentle people are actually strong.

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They have a 'self-healing' mechanism within them, which can first analyze the internal causes when facing negative energy, instead of blindly rushing to argue.

I have a girl in my WeChat circle, whenever she eats at someone's house, she always praises the food and helps clean up the dishes afterwards, and she always smiles when she meets each other. Everyone's evaluation of her is: This girl is a little silly.

Once we were eating hot pot together, a male student suddenly started talking about plastic surgery, with disapproval, he wanted to start saying something. Suddenly, the silly girl said, 'Actually, I'm planning to get plastic surgery.' When everyone was confused, she rubbed her face and said, 'I'm doing hand-eye plastic surgery, and I can do it in one second.' Everyone laughed and said, 'You're really a silly boy.'

But I know she was deliberately changing the subject because there were at least three girls at the table who had already undergone plastic surgery. She's not a silly girl, she's the smartest girl. She can release a huge amount of goodwill after understanding and sympathizing with others. That moment was the most charming.

May we all be such gentle people. Being loved by this world is really good.

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