The journey reveals both short and long stretches; the tastes experienced reveal both bitterness and coolness.
Liking is just to get a present moment; loving is to pay a future. Liking is the beginning of emotion, love is the end of responsibility. It's because you care about someone, because your heart has a feeling. It's because you pity someone, because love has a willingness to give. If you like, sincerely express your feelings, don't leave regrets for your mood; if you love, cherish the present, and give your all to your feelings. This world's truest love is irreplaceable.
We cannot change the outcome, but we can feel the process; we cannot change the weather, but we can change our mood. Be calm and composed, unruffled, without arrogance or impatience, relaxed and free, serene and natural, handle it with composure, like still water. In life, maintain a calm mind, be content with gains and losses, and be at ease with everything.
Life is like a chess game, full of dangers and opportunities; life is like a road, with rugged mountains and rivers, and smooth, open paths; life is like a river, sometimes winding and twisting, sometimes rushing forward. No matter how arduous the road ahead, no matter how helpless life is, as long as there is happiness in your heart, you don't need to be discouraged. Let yourself maintain a calm heart, be content with gains and losses, and be at ease with everything.
The road you've walked, you know it has short and long stretches; the things you've experienced, you know there are joys and sorrows; the tastes you've tasted, you know there are bitterness and coolness. Life shouldn't be arranged too fully, life shouldn't be designed too tightly. Whatever you do, leave yourself some space, so you can calmly turn around. Therefore, don't expect too much when doing things, don't insist too strongly; you should learn to let go, let go of unrealistic expectations, let go of fruitless persistence.
The most frightening two words in the world are obsession and seriousness. Serious people change their destiny, obsessed people change their lives. Dreams are not goals, but a quality; people are different, the biggest difference is persistence, instead of being anxious about the passing of time, it's better to firmly grasp every moment.
Some stories are retold, and you are still a minor role; some emotions are cherished, but they cannot be held tightly. Life is full of love, which cannot withstand the years; many people cannot withstand the mountains and rivers. Some things, you don't need to know; some misfortunes, you don't need to think about deeply. Some things, you know you should know, you don't need to ask, because the answer may not be acceptable; some people, you need to recognize yourself, you don't need to be sad, because feelings cannot be forced.
Cultivation is transcendence. Suffering is because of concern; concern is because of attachment; attachment is because of being unable to transcend. What you can stand on your feet are usually things you don't value much. The cultivation of life is to continuously improve yourself, so that you can transcend more people and things. After transcending, you will be more detached, and detachment will eliminate suffering. The greatest blessing in life is not to transcend a person or a thing, but to transcend the many hardships and difficulties of the world.
You being happy doesn't mean that everything around you is perfect. It means you've decided to ignore these minor flaws. Life has no ifs and buts, but there are many buts; life cannot be regretted, but you can turn corners. Sometimes you are moved by a sentence because of sincerity; sometimes you cry for a song because of experience. Life is a drifting cloud, the heart is a persistent wind, know how to cherish, wherever the heart goes, there will be a beautiful flower.
Getting what you need is luck; seeking too much is a burden. The needs of life are like eating, you can only eat two bowls of rice; if you greed for the fragrance of the dish, you will not only not enjoy the extra portion, but also suffer from stomach discomfort. Therefore, getting is not necessarily happiness, nor is it necessarily enjoyment. Don't compare yourself to others, learn not to be greedy, don't be demanding, be peaceful and tranquil, be content with what you have, and be happy.
Reality tells you that if you are not outstanding, your closest people will look down on you. Emotions tell you that you don't think the people you like will also like you. Don't think that the people you let go of will also let you go. When you are capable, you are capable; when you are not capable, you are not capable. Therefore, you must be capable, even if you are not capable, you must be capable.
