There is a silence called disappointment
I want a future where I can feel secure
Hannah thought about it again and again before finally deciding to break up with her boyfriend. She said, 'It's not worth it to be with someone who doesn't have a future. It's like walking on a tightrope – constantly trembling and about to fall, but never reaching the other side. For a happier future, a short pain is better than a long one.'
Friends had divided into two camps regarding Hannah's breakup. Some said Hannah was being too realistic, as she had established a deep emotional foundation with her boyfriend since college. Now, she had been defeated by the illusory sense of security. It seemed unbelievable.
Some friends who supported Hannah said that women just want to get married, meaning they want to find a sense of security. If women waste their best years with someone, they will regret it.
Hannah and her boyfriend had one foot in the wedding hall and one foot outside. Her boyfriend had a stable job, and they had spent their passionate years together in a rented apartment, experiencing hardship, frugality, arguments, and sweetness.
You're sleepless, and I'm here to keep you company
The people we meet must have a reason. So, when we meet the right person, it's like a long-awaited reunion.
So, so, so, we're all waiting for someone to appreciate the world with us.
The more you read, the less you'll be overwhelmed
Have you ever thought about the fact that you want to go to a place, meet a person, or pursue something you admire, but they are so far away from you? What's the reason?
Because the distance between you and reading is the same as the distance between you and things you like. The farther you are from reading, the shallower you are.
Even if it's not for money, it's about increasing your knowledge and experience. It may not make you rich or powerful, but it will give you more choices.
We should all pave a way back for ourselves. The more choices we have, the better. We can waste our youth, gain a strong aura, face rumors and gossip, protect our fragile wings, even if it's just a castle built of words, it will give us security.
I spent a long time alone, waking up and going to sleep every morning and evening, facing four white walls, playing with my phone and computer, and I once suspected that I had depression. Later, I started reading. I read a book five or six times, and then I formed a habit of holding a book like holding a lover's face.
Basically, it's for a better life, to earn a living, and to enjoy life. I'm a simple person, and I don't do anything for the sake of it, just for myself.
It's not bad to be a simple person. Your parenting guide doesn't have to be sophisticated; you can try 'returning to simplicity.' Simple people are simple-minded. You can tell your children, 'First understand the simple things, then understand the sophisticated things.'
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