Complex Lives and Human Hearts!

I used to think thirty was a distant dream, but suddenly I realized that the year I was 18 is also very far away! Blink of an eye, I'm about to turn thirty! As I get older, I've become increasingly aware of the complexity of society and the flaws in human nature. Especially after what I saw happen to my friends in 2019, I was deeply moved. I often wonder if it's because I'm too naive or because society is too realistic. It's shocking to see couples who seem so happy and harmonious, only to break up after just a year, and the man's new wife has already given birth to a baby, apparently a product of their love. This really shook me and challenged my worldview! Based on my own 'righteous' perspective, I think these men are utterly despicable! Scumbags! Although it hasn't happened to me, I believe that no matter male or female, at any time, we should love ourselves. Loving yourself is never wrong! Don't hurt others, and love yourself so that you don't become so vulnerable when you encounter unpleasant things. Through these experiences, I can motivate myself to become better! Keep going, strive to become more and more outstanding!!! Although society is complicated and people are complicated, it won't affect my self-discipline and effort!