Having attachments allows for detachment
How many missed opportunities are due to silence, how many regrets are due to missed chances, and how many people stubbornly live their lives in the midst of missed regrets, ultimately choosing to move on? Every day, they laugh and giggle, only to know in their hearts how tired they are. They smile for others during the day, and cry for themselves at night. Time has transformed the bitterness of the past into later conversations. The years have smoothed out the youthful restlessness. Perhaps there will always be someone who you can't reconcile with, but you really want to make up with. But fortunately, there are things that can't be overcome.
Don't think of yourself as too great, you need to know that in other people's world, no matter how well you do, you are just a supporting character. Time aged my youthful appearance, the world is lonely for my closed heart, fallen leaves like exhausted wind, sorrowfully fluttering across the earth, that's youth, leaving me with beautiful pain, which I can't express. Sometimes, you choose to keep a distance from someone, not because you don't care, but because you clearly know that they don't belong to you. Don't have too high expectations for anyone, it's a shadow, and it's also a lesson. Others give you goodwill and reliance, independent and self-reliant, that's safety. I don't understand what 'just right' means, I just don't want to disappoint or be disappointed. I will embrace when I should, and I will not cry when I should laugh. Love doesn't need to be humble, it doesn't need to deliberately please, the one who truly loves you won't let you be sad; the one who genuinely cares about you won't even bother to reply. There will be a day when I will let go of my current obsession and regret, and live a new life without you. The world is so big, no one can't do without anyone. It's the hardest thing to be believed in, but it only receives false intentions. Yes, many years ago, my romanticism, my romance, and my destiny, have all expired. More importantly, the person who stood by me back then, actually chose to leave midway. We were all guessing whether the other person would miss themselves, we all expected the other person to take the initiative first, so we both had our own thoughts, and eventually we drifted apart. Looking back on the years, the fireworks bloom at the full moon. People are like this, right? When someone comforts you, they talk a lot, but when you encounter something you can't get over, you're still unable to pull yourself out. You understand the principles, but your emotions don't allow it. Stories are too captivating. Who is singing that beautiful love song in the wind, and who is tying their heart's desires into knots. Silky threads, intertwined and connected, not for gazing at your appearance, but for the smile you bestow upon me when you turn back. One day, you might remember us, and remember that our world once existed.
Overly rigid hurts people and oneself, excessively soft can't protect yourself, how hard it is to be sharp-edged and affectionate at the same time. Every time I hear your news, I pretend I don't care and quietly turn it into a secret. Spring, summer, autumn, winter, you will never return. When a relationship ends, you truly lose not the person you want to spend your life with, but the sincerity you've repeatedly pieced together for him. I don't understand why I care so much about what others think, judging and criticizing is just the pastime of idle people. Why bother being so concerned, if you don't eat someone else's food, don't put it in your heart. Every misunderstanding is something you might not care about until it becomes clear, and only then do you fully understand it. You have to be willing to let go, only then can you let go.
Everyone who doesn't understand love will encounter someone who does, and then experience a heartbreaking love. Someone who doesn't understand love slowly understands, but someone who understands love doesn't dare to love again. Later, I gradually learned to accept rather than give, even if I encounter someone I'm attracted to, I just shake my head and say no. Disappointment accumulates and you let go, don't disturb me, that's my final kindness. Most things aren't what you think they are after you understand them, but you only understand them after you've ceased to care. You have to be willing to let go, only then can you let go.
