Yang Lan's 30 Classic Quotes: As a Woman, You Must Be Refined
1As a woman, you must be refined.
2A man's attractiveness doesn't lie in his looks, but in his wisdom and composure gained through years.
3From twenty to thirty, perhaps you've tried many different choices. What's truly suitable for you? By reviewing the past 10 years, start to truly understand yourself, know your style, and stop imitating others. Be confident in your own style.
4You may not be successful, but you must keep growing. Someone might hinder your success, but no one will block your growth.
5Everyone's emotional starting point is different. No matter how big or small the changes in your life, you'll eventually return to your original self.
6Sometimes, fate's teasing lies in your indecision, until you finally make a decision, and it's already too late.
7No one is obligated to find your excellent inner self through an appearance that even you don't care about much. You must be refined; this is a woman's dignity.
8People who have gone through life's low points and pain can truly understand and respect the interviewees.
9Confidence is a charm that makes you and those around you feel at ease.
10Success isn't about how much money you have or what high position you hold, but about the fact that when you have nothing left, people will still smile at you.
11Read more good books, make more good friends, or even cultivate good habits. Twenty is the time to invest and save; prepare for the future. Attractive thirty doesn't come naturally; if you haven't worked hard for 29 years, you won't see a miracle after 30.
12Girls can be assertive and proud sometimes. Twenty-something girls are the most beautiful; they can laugh freely and stubbornly. Twenty-something girls should be the most true to themselves, enjoying the most beautiful years with a brilliant smile, daring to love and hate, daring to pursue.
13We may not be able to control the direction of the wind, but we can adjust the sails to reach the other shore of victory.
14The Chinese culture doesn't admire being praised on the face. True and moderate praise is the best social lubricant. Taking pictures to flatter is different.
15Sometimes, fate's teasing lies in your indecision, until you finally make a decision, and it's already too late.
16I appreciate a viewpoint that the best way to judge the quality of a relationship is to see if the two people have a chance to become better selves.
17It's more important to open your own world than to enter others' worlds.
18We must admit that people are prone to self-righteousness. We unconsciously judge others, unaware that we are constantly being judged by others.
19Just out of the ivory tower, twenty-year-old girls should have a bold and fearless attitude. Even if they make many mistakes, it doesn't matter. I always say, the biggest capital for young people is making mistakes. So be brave to pursue your beloved career. Because if you don't go after it, how do you know if you can do it?
20Without a fail means stopping forward, that's the biggest risk. For avoiding danger, you go on risk, to avoid mediocrity and nothing remarkable.
21No one is obligated to find your excellent inner self through an appearance that even you don't care about much. You must be refined; this is a woman's dignity.
22Work hard, live comfortably; live comfortably, work hard.
23A complete woman should be able to wear elegant high heels and also wear practical shoes on the mud. She should be proficient in both work and leisure, but she should also transform her identity at different times.
24We may not be able to control the direction of the wind, but we can adjust the sails to reach the other shore of victory.
25When you first get something easily, you think it's the result of your hard work. Only when you're older will you realize that many people have carried you.
26Going away is for returning, freedom is because of missing.
27Life is changeable. You shouldn't only focus on your own immediate happiness, forgetting the future preparation, nor should you start to live a ascetic life just to achieve the future goal. Let these two things be in a reasonable proportion, making it easier for you to be happy.
28If a woman depends on a man, she has no own thoughts. In this environment where individuality is valued, men also like women with personality and ability.
29Reality is always imperfect, leading to hope becoming a gamble. Losing is painful, so shouldn't you stop pursuing?
30Happiness doesn't fall from the sky; it grows from your heart.
