My Mother-in-Law Accompanies on Honeymoon, Niece-in-Law: I'm Exiting, Disrupting Your Couple's World

I don't know what mode everyone chooses when traveling, whether it's with their parents, friends, or lovers. Recently, a speech went viral online in which a young man suggested that the order of contact between a young man and a young woman should be: first dating, then traveling, then cohabitation and marriage with children, and none of these steps should be missed. Many people didn't understand this, and wondered why traveling has become such an important part of the process.

If you have a solo travel experience, you will know that a long-distance trip will bring all kinds of things. You need to plan in advance, buy tickets, arrange itineraries, book hotels, and be prepared to deal with various emergencies. So couples who can perfectly handle travel can prepare the first step for a long-term life, at least they won't have any problems in communication.

But traveling with parents is the most complicated type of situation. Because of the difference in age, it's difficult for young people to immerse themselves in the joy of traveling, so the first thing they need to do is to take into account the preferences of their parents in the itinerary, but parents want to visit famous attractions and take photos, while young people are afraid of crowds and queues. So many people when traveling with their parents, will simply hand over all their worries to the travel agency, and some even refuse to go together, and entrust it to the guide.

Moreover, travel has many important meanings for some people, and newlyweds will use honeymoon trips to start their new lives, so honeymoon trips have a special status in some people's minds. I know many people may spend more thought on planning this trip than on the wedding scene.

Aunt Lili also encountered similar difficulties. She was on the phone with me when she was almost hysterical, saying that she couldn't imagine that a good honeymoon would be told before departure that her mother-in-law would accompany her. 'Three people' honeymoon, she couldn't accept it. But she was even more angry about her husband's attitude, who had decided the whole itinerary without consulting her, making her the accessory in this honeymoon trip.

Lili is a person who pursues ritualism in everything, so when she was pursuing Lili, her husband used the ritual of playing the guitar under Lili's dormitory building to win her heart. At that time, Lili was the school flower, and many boys chased after her, but she was won over by her husband because of his actions were full of ritualism. After confirming the relationship, Lili often expressed her desire for a grand wedding ceremony. Finally, her husband followed her advice and, with the help of her friends, organized this wedding ceremony.

Because of the grand wedding ceremony, the two families had no objections when discussing the marriage. Lili didn't have many requirements, just excitedly waiting for the wedding ceremony to be held. The two families chose to meet at Lili's home, which was also the first time her boyfriend visited.

On that day, Lili had prepared early, and this was the first time she had met her mother-in-law, so she attached great importance to this meeting. But after the meeting, her mother-in-law only discussed the marriage with Lili's parents, without much communication with Lili. Lili thought that her mother-in-law didn't like her, but her husband said that her mother-in-law was very kind and capable of managing the household, and she was also a good cook. Because her father was often away from home for work, her relationship with her husband was very good.

Later, several times when meeting with the future mother-in-law, the mother-in-law was still lukewarm, Lili didn't pay much attention to it, thinking it was the normal state between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, so as to make communication more easy in the future. Originally, she thought this state would continue until the wedding, but Lili discovered that as her relationship with her husband became longer, her mother-in-law would often call to check on her husband, urging him to go home, which made Lili feel a little annoyed, because she really wanted to have more time to spend with her husband alone.

Husband at that time was always in agreement with Lili, and then quickly went home. Lili although verbally agreed, but often like this, so she felt a little annoyed, because she really wanted to spend more time with her husband alone. Getting married was supposed to be a two-person world.

Soon after the wedding ceremony was held, Lili called three 'mother' before it was officially recognized. But at the ceremony, the steward said a witty remark, which was missed by everyone except Lili. Lili's heart began to doubt her mother-in-law, but the wedding was already done, and everything was settled.

Later, her husband told Lili that he had canceled the entire itinerary, and he was very upset, saying that Lili didn't understand, and she shouldn't be so impetuous. But Lili was very frustrated, she didn't know what to do, and her relationship with her mother-in-law was also strained.

Some people think that Lili shouldn't accept traveling with her mother-in-law, and it's too impolite to cancel the itinerary. In fact, Lili was angry because she didn't know about the itinerary in advance, and it was only when she was about to leave that her husband casually mentioned it.

Regarding the issue of accompanying, some people take it lightly, thinking that as long as you go on vacation, you can relax and have fun, and it doesn't matter if there are one or two more people. But honeymoon trips are different, they are meant to let couples have more private time to deepen their feelings, and adding a mother-in-law is not just a simple addition of one more companion.

Moreover, Lili's husband was in charge of the itinerary, and he always prioritized his mother's feelings, which made Lili feel frustrated.

Later, I learned that Lili told me the story piece by piece, and she was angry, frustrated, and confused. She didn't know how to deal with her mother-in-law, and her relationship with her mother-in-law was also strained.

Some people think that Lili shouldn't accept traveling with her mother-in-law, and it's too impolite to cancel the itinerary. In fact, Lili was angry because she didn't know about the itinerary in advance, and it was only when she was about to leave that her husband casually mentioned it.

Regarding the issue of accompanying, some people take it lightly, thinking that as long as you go on vacation, you can relax and have fun, and it doesn't matter if there are one or two more people. But honeymoon trips are different, they are meant to let couples have more private time to deepen their feelings, and adding a mother-in-law is not just a simple addition of one more companion.

Moreover, Lili's husband was in charge of the itinerary, and he always prioritized his mother's feelings, which made Lili feel frustrated.

Later, I learned that Lili told me the story piece by piece, and she was angry, frustrated, and confused. She didn't know how to deal with her mother-in-law, and her relationship with her mother-in-law was also strained.

Some people think that Lili shouldn't accept traveling with her mother-in-law, and it's too impolite to cancel the itinerary. In fact, Lili was angry because she didn't know about the itinerary in advance, and it was only when she was about to leave that her husband casually mentioned it.

Regarding the issue of accompanying, some people take it lightly, thinking that as long as you go on vacation, you can relax and have fun, and it doesn't matter if there are one or two more people. But honeymoon trips are different, they are meant to let couples have more private time to deepen their feelings, and adding a mother-in-law is not just a simple addition of one more companion.

Moreover, Lili's husband was in charge of the itinerary, and he always prioritized his mother's feelings, which made Lili feel frustrated.

Later, I learned that Lili told me the story piece by piece, and she was angry, frustrated, and confused. She didn't know how to deal with her mother-in-law, and her relationship with her mother-in-law was also strained.

Some people think that Lili shouldn't accept traveling with her mother-in-law, and it's too impolite to cancel the itinerary. In fact, Lili was angry because she didn't know about the itinerary in advance, and it was only when she was about to leave that her husband casually mentioned it.

Regarding the issue of accompanying, some people take it lightly, thinking that as long as you go on vacation, you can relax and have fun, and it doesn't matter if there are one or two more people. But honeymoon trips are different, they are meant to let couples have more private time to deepen their feelings, and adding a mother-in-law is not just a simple addition of one more companion.

Moreover, Lili's husband was in charge of the itinerary, and he always prioritized his mother's feelings, which made Lili feel frustrated.

Later, I learned that Lili told me the story piece by piece, and she was angry, frustrated, and confused. She didn't know how to deal with her mother-in-law, and her relationship with her mother-in-law was also strained.

Some people think that Lili shouldn't accept traveling with her mother-in-law, and it's too impolite to cancel the itinerary. In fact, Lili was angry because she didn't know about the itinerary in advance, and it was only when she was about to leave that her husband casually mentioned it.

Regarding the issue of accompanying, some people take it lightly, thinking that as long as you go on vacation, you can relax and have fun, and it doesn't matter if there are one or two more people. But honeymoon trips are different, they are meant to let couples have more private time to deepen their feelings, and adding a mother-in-law is not just a simple addition of one more companion.